Lost Motion for temp orders- what now?

[soccer<3mom]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? UT

I lost motion for temp orders a few days ago to my babies father. I will keep fighting. I have been the primary care taker , his parents have helped- I believe the judge gave him the temp orders because she goes to school in their school district which now is also the dads district since he decided to move by his mom. He had no proof of anything.

Whereas, I had all the paper work that I enrolled her in school since kinder-5th grade (present), taken her to ALL of her medical, dental, insta care, PTA, soccer, homework, projects.. ect. I had proof of all of that. and it wasn't even considered. He's never paid me any money. I've bought her everything she has needed for my house. He moved to utah 11/07 sought more time with her, 1 maybe 2 days a week, every other wkend if that. I still lost. Should I get a new attorney?
I need to move forward. I don't understand why got entitled to temp motion orders, what does that entail????
Will I be entitled to PAY HIM child support??? (wow I am shocked!!!!) if so, Will it be 'temporary' like the orders say?

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Thank you so much

 

[soccer<3mom]

Sent to me. First paragraph.

'the respondent should be awarded sole temp care, custody and control of the parties minor child'..

Petitioner should be awarded liberal and flexible parent time as the parties agree to ensure frequent, meaningful, and continuing access with the child. ...'

Hearing was yesterday, I wasn't given any 'papers'. I'm just going by all the unnecessary expensive paper work that we've been sending each other.

Does this mean he won the above? temp to perm? how long is 'temp'? When can i file for 'perm'..etc.

Please help. I'll provide any info u need.( Except personal contact info , SSN, etc u got the deal ;-) ) I really appreciate it.

 

[Just Blue]

Sent to me. First paragraph.

'the respondent should be awarded sole temp care, custody and control of the parties minor child'..

Petitioner should be awarded liberal and flexible parent time as the parties agree to ensure frequent, meaningful, and continuing access with the child. ...'

Hearing was yesterday, I wasn't given any 'papers'. I'm just going by all the unnecessary expensive paper work that we've been sending each other.

Does this mean he won the above? temp to perm? how long is 'temp'? When can i file for 'perm'..etc.

Please help. I'll provide any info u need.( Except personal contact info , SSN, etc u got the deal ;-) ) I really appreciate it.

Were you the respondent?

 

[soccer<3mom]

no

Were you the respondent?

no. this is why I am seeking advice..

 

[Just Blue]

no. this is why I am seeking advice..

What reason was given by the judge for his decision?

 

[soccer<3mom]

What reason was given by the judge for his decision?

That my kid has always been in 'grandparents' school district. (his parents)... Only 'proof' ? I kept her there per my kids choice and convenient for dropping her off before school to grandma '04-'07 during school. She's always lived with me. My kid does not have her own room at grandmas. He moved from '04-'07 states he always had contact with my kid and sent her and his parents money. I know he sent her some but never consistent- I also took care of her every day life needs CONSISTENTLY. I don't understand. I am flabbergasted.

*updated notes* when he moved out of state for those yrs she lived with me in same apartments as grandparents about 3 yrs or so, then I moved with my mom (with my daughter) but kept her in the same school (by grandmas)..which is literally one block away. grandparents love her as does my child them.

this is what I get for being nice?

 

[LdiJ]

That my kid has always been in 'grandparents' school district. (his parents)... Only 'proof' ? I kept her there per my kids choice and convenient for dropping her off before school to grandma '04-'07 during school. She's always lived with me. My kid does not have her own room at grandmas. He moved from '04-'07 states he always had contact with my kid and sent her and his parents money. I know he sent her some but never consistent- I also took care of her every day life needs CONSISTENTLY. I don't understand. I am flabbergasted.

*updated notes* when he moved out of state for those yrs she lived with me in same apartments as grandparents about 3 yrs or so, then I moved with my mom (with my daughter) but kept her in the same school (by grandmas)..which is literally one block away. grandparents love her as does my child them.

this is what I get for being nice?

You need to IMMEDIATELY get yourself an attorney and file for reconsideration on the temp orders. Clearly a mistake has been made.

 

[soccer<3mom]

You need to IMMEDIATELY get yourself an attorney and file for reconsideration on the temp orders. Clearly a mistake has been made.

Funny things is- I have an attorney. (must not be that great of an attorney).

I clear mistake on the judges fault and or my attorney. I will talk to him first thing Monday to see what I can do.

Thank you much- any other advice is greatly appreciated!

 

[Ohiogal]

Didn't you have another thread that you deleted?

 

[soccer<3mom]

Didn't you have another thread that you deleted?

Yes. I think it had to do with child support or claiming child as dependent.

 

[Ohiogal]

Yes. I think it had to do with child support or claiming child as dependent.

Then I am done helping you. Why waste time when you just delete your threads. Oh and how did you keep the child in the same school not near your home without committing a crime?

 

[soccer<3mom]

Then I am done helping you. Why waste time when you just delete your threads. Oh and how did you keep the child in the same school not near your home without committing a crime?

How? I kept my child's address as her grandmas address. We all lived at that address, When dad left out of state for those years, I too lived in the same apartments.... this is why I kept her in the same school district. she built relationships with school friends, apartment friends. still does. she is 10. all her friends and 'bff's' that she says are in that area. like i said, it is literally blocks away from where our home is. I also have asked her years prior how she would feel if I changed her schools, she did not seem happy about it. I knew she was safe being in grandmas care before/after school and such, I would pick her up right after school right by the apartments.

(this IS the thread I thought I deleted- I had one similar to this (issue was answered hence why i deleted thread)and that other thread I have open. )

 

[starting over]

This board frowns on deleting threads. The Members do put alot of time and research to answer questions. If future visitors have a similar situation as yours and they attempt the "search" feature (doesn't happen alot, but sometimes ) then they could not benefit from the answers/research already provided.

So, just because you received the answer to "your" question, it is there, in the archives, for all to learn from if they so choose.

 

[Zigner]

How? I kept my child's address as her grandmas address. We all lived at that address, When dad left out of state for those years, I too lived in the same apartments.... this is why I kept her in the same school district. she built relationships with school friends, apartment friends. still does. she is 10. all her friends and 'bff's' that she says are in that area. like i said, it is literally blocks away from where our home is. I also have asked her years prior how she would feel if I changed her schools, she did not seem happy about it. I knew she was safe being in grandmas care before/after school and such, I would pick her up right after school right by the apartments.

(this IS the thread I thought I deleted- I had one similar to this (issue was answered hence why i deleted thread)and that other thread I have open. )

So, you are committing fraud by telling the school district that the child lives within their boundaries. Now, it has come back to bite you in the arse because the dad is using your statements against you and you couldn't prove which one of your statements was a lie and which was true.

 

[soccer<3mom]

So, you are committing fraud by telling the school district that the child lives within their boundaries. Now, it has come back to bite you in the arse because the dad is using your statements against you and you couldn't prove which one of your statements was a lie and which was true.

Yes within grandmas school district boundaries. really unfortunate If I would have known that he was going to lie and state that my child lived with his mom while he was gone, I would've changed her to the school in our district.

I have and still trying to obtain as much evidence/documents that proves that she's always lived me with me so the judge will reconsider the 'temp orders'. The school is the only document that is in their 'side', if you will. But you can also see it as, my child is 10 and has always had school address at grandmas. That does not look well. unfortunate unfortunate. I always maintained a close relationship with his parents. There are no 'hard feelings, I am hoping they will tell the truth if/when we have to subpoena them.

I never knew custody battles were so time consuming. I will stay positive, this is a clear mistake and I will prove myself to the court.