Mom Wont Allow Visitation

[stepmom4ever]

I was trying to give you a little perspective is all. But YOU seem to know everything. Pay attention and you will see our situation is pretty similar.

Sure it matters. What matters is that he isn't going to get extra time when the child is only a few months old to see YOUR family. YOUR family doesnt COUNT.

Sorry, just upset thats all

 

[Humusluvr]

Really, I'm not trying to do so. It seems as thought I can't even have an opinion on things. I'm not trying to cause trouble

YOU CANT EVEN HAVE AN OPINION ON THAT CHILD!!!!

You should run like hell from this situation. Seriously, ban the mom's name from your vocab, don't discuss, if your husband wants to vent or talk, just listen and nod and smile and hold your hand over your mouth so that you don't SCREW EVERYTHING UP!!!

You had a sucky situation forced upon you early in your marriage. You should play blind monkey, deaf monkey, dumb monkey and stay completely away. YOU go visit your family, no kids involved.

 

[stepmom4ever]

WHATEVER your opinion is, unless it's requested by the MOM, keep it to yourself. Simple.

While I agree that waiting till 3 is a long time, if that's what is in the order he has 2 options:

1. Deal with it, because it is what it is, or
2. Petition for a modification to add overnights.

he cant , judge told him she would deny it because the order is too new and he need a significant of change in circumstances

 

[StampGirl]

I apologize for being harsh or sounding that way.

I would RUN so fast the dirt would fly up under my shoes from that situation. No one deserves to have to deal with that at such a young age or early in their marriage.

I feel for you but learn from your mistakes and move forward.

Good Luck.

 

[>Charlotte<]

This is going to be another 96 posts of "it's none of your business", each one followed by OP's acknowledgment and agreement, followed by another thread next week with yet another overstepping question.

 

[CJane]

This is going to be another 96 posts of "it's none of your business", each one followed by OP's acknowledgment and agreement, followed by another thread next week with yet another overstepping question.

I thought Psycho ... I mean RMet... took the crystal ball with her when she left.

Hand it over! You're not even a SENIOR!!!!!

 

[stepmom4ever]

This is going to be another 96 posts of "it's none of your business", each one followed by OP's acknowledgment and agreement, followed by another thread next week with yet another overstepping question.

no it wont because I'm done with it. we will have to wait until the child is 3 years of age. thats it

 

[Just Blue]

he cant , judge told him she would deny it because the order is too new and he need a significant of change in circumstances

So why are you here?? Your husband agreed to this because he didn't want to make waves after your outlandish behavior. Mom is following the order. And frankly if she WERE to be inclined to allow more visitation I doubt it would be for a vacation to YOUR family in Florida!! How stupid could the two of you be? After all that YOU did to this poor woman to have the flipping audacity to even THINK of this is mental!! You have learned nothing. Nothing!

 

[>Charlotte<]

I'd be smug about my astonishing foresight if it weren't for the fact that everybody thought it. I'm just the one that said it.

No, you can't have it back. I'm using it to predict the elections. So far all I see is a big fuzzy gray blob that you kinda have to squint to see. So apparently it's going to be Giuliani.

 

[stepmom4ever]

I'd be smug about my astonishing foresight if it weren't for the fact that everybody thought it. I'm just the one that said it.

WHATEVER! Like I said, I'm done

 

[Just Blue]

WHATEVER! Like I said, I'm done

We live in hope....

 

[stepmom4ever]

So why are you here?? Your husband agreed to this because he didn't want to make waves after your outlandish behavior. Mom is following the order. And frankly if she WERE to be inclined to allow more visitation I doubt it would be for a vacation to YOUR family in Florida!! How stupid could the two of you be? After all that YOU did to this poor woman to have the flipping audacity to even THINK of this is mental!! You have learned nothing. Nothing!

No it's not mental, he's my husband and he married into my family. So his child is my family through marriage, but I'm not going into that. Thanks for the advice EVERYONE! WE WILL WAIT, SIMPLE, NOTHING WE CAN DO

 

[Zigner]

no it wont because I'm done with it. we will have to wait until the child is 3 years of age. thats it

You STILL don't get it!
"WE" won't have to wait for ANYTHING. The child's FATHER will have to wait!

 

[wileybunch]

stepmom4ever, you have been in crisis over your husband's choices regarding this child for a while now. You may need to get used to it -- chances are that dad will continue to make choices that make your head spin in the future. Frankly, agreeing to not have overnights at all until the child is 3 b/c you all ticked off Mom and she was mad was not a reason to back down over something so serious and intensely legal as appearing in family court about the disposition of one's own flesh and blood. You cannot save your husband from his bad choices, but, lucky you, you get to live with them!

Just don't say that the law isn't fair with regard to dads because dad did this to himself -- don't you agree??

 

[Just Blue]

No it's not mental, he's my husband and he married into my family. So his child is my family through marriage, but I'm not going into that. Thanks for the advice EVERYONE! WE WILL WAIT, SIMPLE, NOTHING WE CAN DO

NO!NO!NO! His child is HIS child. Not your family through marriage! You don't get it and yes!! YOU ARE MENTAL! No person in their right mind could be this daft!

The both of you should be barred from going NEAR this child and her mother!! You are potentially dangerous with your utter stupidity and disregard for common sence!