passport issue

[Silverplum]

Can we get her a crown with a giant bookmark on it???

Bejeweled bookmark? Yay!!!!

 

[Humusluvr]

Can we get her a crown with a giant bookmark on it???

Oh yes! That is a SUPER idea!!! LOL

 

[Humusluvr]

Bejeweled bookmark? Yay!!!!

Maybe I will Bedazzle you a jacket that says "Queen O' The Bookmark" and I will try to find some glue on rollyeyes!!!

 

[Silverplum]

Maybe I will Bedazzle you a jacket that says "Queen O' The Bookmark" and I will try to find some glue on rollyeyes!!!

*clasps hands at chest level*

That's all I ever really wanted!!!!

I could be like Laverne on "Laverne & Shirley," but instead of the big "L" she wore, I'd have big ol' !!!!

 

[CourtClerk]

Maybe I will Bedazzle you a jacket that says "Queen O' The Bookmark" and I will try to find some glue on rollyeyes!!!

We must stop now. I feel an audible laugh in open court and I'm gonna get in trouble. The judgy wudgy is in a bad mood today.

 

[Silverplum]

We must stop now. I feel an audible laugh in open court and I'm gonna get in trouble. The judgy wudgy is in a bad mood today.

Bedazzle him!

 

[stepmom4ever]

Op, please take this post in the spirit that is intended.

I have reviewed your threads. Every one of them got closed by the admin. Thats a sign that you are not learning what you need to be learning from your postings.

On every thread you got the legally valid answers to your questions, on page one of your thread. Yet each thread went on and on and on with you either defending your husband or trying to insist that your opinion should somehow count, legally.

Please accept the fact that you are legally nothing in the child's life, and that the child's mother and father are the only two adults who count.

Also, please understand that the legalities of things will never change, just by you arguing about them. The legal reality is the legal reality.

In this instance, your husband is being a dufus, because she is GOING to get the passport, and she is going to be able to travel with the child. Your husband needs to accept that.

Besides....and sigh....I don't think this has anything to do with the fact that he thinks she might not bring the child back. I think this is revenge because she wouldn't give him overnights that he wasn't entitled to receive, so that you and he could travel out of state wtih the baby.

If that is the case that is just more of the pettiness that seems to be part of your problems with the mother.

The best thing for both your husband and this child, is to have as healthy a possible co-parenting relationship with the mother. The best way for that to happen is for you to stay completely out of things, always, other than helping your husband when the child is present.

If you need to ask questions, that's fine, but accept the answers that you get on the first couple of pages, please don't drag it on and on and on.

And if you've noticed, I haven't responded to anymore of you all responses......My husband don't torture her. When she contact him to ask for him to buy clothes or shoes, he does it....since the baby was born I never went with him to pick up the baby.... she only text him and calls on occasions but when she calls she ask directly for him without saying "hello or how are you doing" when I answer the phone (that's rude).....When I call her back to give her an FYI about being rude and showing respect, she just hangs up on me in mid sentence. She sends subliminal messages saying her son is the first child and he is the legacy, that hurts but I dont say anything. I just focus on my husband enjoying my pregnancy and will be a full time dad to our child because our child will live with us. Every since I became pregnant, I stepped away because I'm focused on my baby and being healthy for his first daughter....

 

[LdiJ]

And if you've noticed, I haven't responded to anymore of you all responses......My husband don't torture her. When she contact him to ask for him to buy clothes or shoes, he does it....since the baby was born I never went with him to pick up the baby.... she only text him and calls on occasions but when she calls she ask directly for him without saying "hello or how are you doing" when I answer the phone (that's rude).....When I call her back to give her an FYI about being rude and showing respect, she just hangs up on me in mid sentence. She sends subliminal messages saying her son is the first child and he is the legacy, that hurts but I dont say anything. I just focus on my husband enjoying my pregnancy and will be a full time dad to our child because our child will live with us. Every since I became pregnant, I stepped away because I'm focused on my baby and being healthy for his first daughter....

Well....that just proves that I was spitting in the wind.

 

[stepmom04]

And if you've noticed, I haven't responded to anymore of you all responses......My husband don't torture her. When she contact him to ask for him to buy clothes or shoes, he does it....since the baby was born I never went with him to pick up the baby.... she only text him and calls on occasions but when she calls she ask directly for him without saying "hello or how are you doing" when I answer the phone (that's rude).....When I call her back to give her an FYI about being rude and showing respect, she just hangs up on me in mid sentence. She sends subliminal messages saying her son is the first child and he is the legacy, that hurts but I dont say anything. I just focus on my husband enjoying my pregnancy and will be a full time dad to our child because our child will live with us. Every since I became pregnant, I stepped away because I'm focused on my baby and being healthy for his first daughter....

Have you heard the saying...if you can't something nice..don't say anything at all. Maybe that's what she is doing. She doesn't like you...and quite frankly she doesn't have to you. Are you wanting to be her best friend? I've read your other posts...and I've read all your replies here..and usually I feel for the stepmom, but I think mom is absolutely legit and correct in doing the things she has done. I think you are the one that has the problem. Its not her having the problem with you having a baby...its you that is upset that she had a baby before you. Back off...and why the hell are you paying his child support!!! Grow some cahoonas and make him get a damn job!

 

[jbowman]

Well....that just proves that I was spitting in the wind.

Wow, unfortunately, we all were.

Stepmom4ever, when you learn that your stupid pride is not important, you should come back to this site to get advice until then--it is a complete waste of everyone's time.

She has absolutely NO reason to talk to you. There is NO reason she has to be nice to you. You are nothing to her and never will be. It is a sad fact of life. I still remember the letter she wrote to you that you posted on here and after everything you have done to that woman, she was still cordial. Guess what I would be doing when I called your house.... "B****, GET MY BABIES DADDY!" So youre getting off easy.

 

[stepmom04]

Wow, unfortunately, we all were.

Stepmom04, when you learn that your stupid pride is not important, you should come back to this site to get advice until then--it is a complete waste of everyone's time.

She has absolutely NO reason to talk to you. There is NO reason she has to be nice to you. You are nothing to her and never will be. It is a sad fact of life. I still remember the letter she wrote to you that you posted on here and after everything you have done to that woman, she was still cordial. Guess what I would be doing when I called your house.... "B****, GET MY BABIES DADDY!" So youre getting off easy.

My pride..wtf did I do?

 

[stealth2]

People - STOP responding to this woman! If Dad is concerned, have him come and ask his questions under his own handle. Why do y'all encourage her?

 

[jbowman]

My pride..wtf did I do?

My bad. All you stepmoms look alike. LOL just playin

 

[Humusluvr]

since the baby was born I never went with him to pick up the baby....

No, you actually went to the HOPSITAL to confront the mother while she was in labor. that's the super part.

she only text him and calls on occasions but when she calls she ask directly for him without saying "hello or how are you doing" when I answer the phone (that's rude)

Good for her. she should have nothing to do with you.

.....When I call her back to give her an FYI about being rude and showing respect, she just hangs up on me in mid sentence.

YOU CALL HER BACK??? ARE YOU STUPID??? I would hang up on you from the first syllable out of your mouth. She should be given a medal for how rude and disrespectful YOU have been to HER. Lay off. Good Lord.

She sends subliminal messages saying her son is the first child and he is the legacy, that hurts but I dont say anything.

That's cuz you can't!!! Its true!!! She had your hubby's FIRST CHILD. If that hurts you - get a divorce! You are in for a world more hurt in the future!

I just focus on my husband enjoying my pregnancy and will be a full time dad to our child because our child will live with us.

What a suck-a$$ attitude.

Every since I became pregnant, I stepped away because I'm focused on my baby and being healthy for his first daughter....

His second child.

 

[stepmom4ever]

Wow, unfortunately, we all were.

Stepmom4ever, when you learn that your stupid pride is not important, you should come back to this site to get advice until then--it is a complete waste of everyone's time.

She has absolutely NO reason to talk to you. There is NO reason she has to be nice to you. You are nothing to her and never will be. It is a sad fact of life. I still remember the letter she wrote to you that you posted on here and after everything you have done to that woman, she was still cordial. Guess what I would be doing when I called your house.... "B****, GET MY BABIES DADDY!" So youre getting off easy.

you meant to say stepmom4ever, not stepmom04...and I'm cordial with her also...she and I were doing fine for one week..she bought my unborn baby a blanket as a gift...I thanked her and things went good for a week...She let me pick up the baby for my husband and I to se on father's day but that was it. She informed me that she only allowed me to come that one time but not return to her home for regular visits and I'm okay with that....I'm pregnant and I dont want any drama from her. But when she called an ask to speak to my husband without saying hi, I told her she can tell me what's wrong with the baby...she simply said no and told me to have him call when he is available and then she hung up on me....that's when I called her back to give her an FYI


But thanks all boodbye