Want to Go WITH my Kids

[bononos]

But as I said...
The advice I wanted was regarding how do I prevent my husband from taking my 2yo away from me if we split. I should've added 'until we can get some shared custody orders', but as I said, I am new to this.
Not sure what the other stuff has to do with that. Just wanted to protect myself from my son being stolen from me.

I don't want to continue with this any longer, but the thing is, your life, his life, your kids lives, your jobs, your activities, your upbringing, and of course, the child or children in question all are what custody is about.

 

[kimberlywrites]

And:
Especially if he is prone to angry outbursts. Don't be provoking him...

 

[GottaGo]

Thanks, casa. Someone actually gave that good advice earlier. You gave the added bonus of defining first right of refusal which sounds perfect for us. Thanks again.
kimberlywrites, as I said, dad says if we are breaking up, he's taking the baby. Very difficult to reason with an angry person. Been trying for some time now. But I will certainly consider it. Thanks.

 

[AHA]

I wanted advice on protecting myself from that. And got it, thank you all.

Then do us all a favor and close this thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No one is going to help you steal kids away from a father. Of course he's p*ssed off at you after being forced to work his @ss off to support you, because if you were making so much money as you think you are, he wouldn't have to work like a dog.
You are diluded if you think that you can work enough to comfortably support an adult, a home, car, 3 kids etc etc while looking after them 24/7 (funny how that question was never answered by you!).

I sure hope that dad gets to see and live with his kids as much as any other responsible parent.
You are so worried about him being too angry to care for his kids, ever think that he might be angry because of you??? When you're finally out of his life he might become the happiest man alive! Just open your mind to others beside yourself.

YOU GOT YOUR ANSWERS SO CLOSE THE THREAD!!!!!! Prove to be a better person than what you have displayed.

 

[GottaGo]

can we be done with this now? I got the advice I wanted? when I delete I am sure I will be slammed by some of you again. oh well....

 

[bononos]

can we be done with this now? I got the advice I wanted? when I delete I am sure I will be slammed by some of you again. oh well....

Locking and deleting are different.
Locking allows others to refrence later.
Deleting shows your hiding something.

 

[GottaGo]

aha, what are you even talking about??????

I can support me and my kids, I just can't support him and his damn 4 work trucks and all his debt. I work on my computer when my baby is asleep or otherwise occupied and it has worked quite nicely for the past 3 years. I am sure I will continue to find a way to support my family. i am sure some of my husband's anger issues are because of me. I never once said he was a bad father to my 2yo or that he takes his issues out on him. Thank God!!!
And if you are tired of the thread then stop reading it! duh.

 

[Rushia]

Hummm....In the words of Adam Sandler...
"Something that should have been brought to our attention YESTERDAY!

(or at least in your first post)

Guess what movie, you win a prize!!!!!!!!!!

Wedding Singer?

 

[bononos]

Wedding Singer?

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
We have a winner!

The prize...
A date with our newest deadbeat - va445612!!!!

 

[AHA]

aha, what are you even talking about??????
And if you are tired of the thread then stop reading it! duh.

If I have to repeat myself then you are excatly what I thought you were. I'm not going to explain what is obvious! You figure it out!

You are the one b*tching about the replies you get, but admit to getting the ones you wanted, so do you get off in some twisted way by keeping this thread open?

You don't own this site, so don't think you are God all frikkin mighty by thinking you can dictate what people can or can't read. This thread is going nowhere but down the toilet and it is no one else's choice but YOURS to keep it open. Nothing to be proud of, just so you know.

 

[GottaGo]

Not bitching, I think this is funny. You are funny, too.

 

[eme76]

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
We have a winner!

The prize...
A date with our newest deadbeat - va445612!!!!

i think im glad i was wrong
i dont want that prize

 

[Ithildriel]

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
We have a winner!

The prize...
A date with our newest deadbeat - va445612!!!!

roflmao