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dequeendistress

Senior Member
The judge is going to love your testimony.

The reason he cant show up is because he was fasley accused of domestic violence, so he is being detained, until his hearing for that.


OK. I guess my short bus derailed. It appears to me that you are stating the reason he is detained was because of the domestic violence and then you state that he cannot show for that hearing because he is detained.


One more question were there gang members at the home when his ex showed up...I am sure that his PO officer will enjoy that info.

Good luck...May you live long and prosper...
 


leech

Member
dequeendistress said:
The judge is going to love your testimony.

OK. I guess my short bus derailed. It appears to me that you are stating the reason he is detained was because of the domestic violence and then you state that he cannot show for that hearing because he is detained.


One more question were there gang members at the home when his ex showed up...I am sure that his PO officer will enjoy that info.

Good luck...May you live long and prosper...

I clarified that he was falsey accused for domestic violence but it is being held as a parole violation and is not being treated as a domestic violence case. SO, he is being detained until he goes up against the board EINSTEIN. The restraining order is ANOTHER thing that she has now done. He cannot show up to THAT court date ::gives Dequeen tokens for short bus:: .

And yes there were gangmembers and drug dealers there and they were teaching his little girl how to hustle. Dear god make me a bird so I can fly far away from Dequeen of idiotic comments. =/ If it matters to you at all, there were no gangmembers there, she just needed a juicy story to tell his Parole officer and cops when she made the report. I guess she didnt want to include that she got mad because I was there and when her little girl told my boyfriend to tell me "bye" she stopped her car reversed, tried getting in the house to "talk" to me. Then proceeded to Key and Pepper spray his car and then she attempted to pepperspray him. Then, (how sweet of her) she put their daughter in the backseat and then tried to run him over. Shes not the brightest star in the sky but she did not include this in her report. So for her to say there were known gang members and drug dealers there is ridiculous because she never went inside the house to verify. In her report she states that their 6 year old told her. I can see it now.

"Mommy Casper and Killer and Daddy were getting high and spray painting on the walls." Or "Mommy daddy is hanging out with known gangmembers and drug dealers." Child genius I tell ya.
 

dequeendistress

Senior Member
Make sure you take that smartypants attitude with you to the hearing...and I hope you marry this guy.

Domestic violence charge would relate to the Restraining order would it not? Also, if you think that I believe that the system would hold him for no reason, let me give you some crackers to go with your whine. Everyone in prison is innocent...I forgot.

So the whole reason for all of this is that the woman is insanely jeoulous of you. Fine you have it all figured out. Tell the world your boyfriend is innocent and everything that he is accused of is because of you.

And if the woman tried to run over anyone, pepper sprayed and keyed a car, you have a copy of the police report to take to your boyfriends hearing right? You are also filing a restraining order, right?

Justification of ones guilt by pointing fingers at someone else is a great defense. You just are not the first one to try and use it.

Actually just tell the truth. If they even ask you to speak.
Good luck.
 

leech

Member
dequeendistress said:
Make sure you take that smartypants attitude with you to the hearing...and I hope you marry this guy.

Domestic violence charge would relate to the Restraining order would it not? Also, if you think that I believe that the system would hold him for no reason, let me give you some crackers to go with your whine. Everyone in prison is innocent...I forgot.

So the whole reason for all of this is that the woman is insanely jeoulous of you. Fine you have it all figured out. Tell the world your boyfriend is innocent and everything that he is accused of is because of you.

And if the woman tried to run over anyone, pepper sprayed and keyed a car, you have a copy of the police report to take to your boyfriends hearing right? You are also filing a restraining order, right?

Justification of ones guilt by pointing fingers at someone else is a great defense. You just are not the first one to try and use it.

Actually just tell the truth. If they even ask you to speak.
Good luck.

Hahahah Ill be very sure to leave "my smarty pants attitude" at home. The only thing I have to do is tell the truth and trust me if he were guilty of this, I would be the first to admit it and would not try to justify it by pointing fingers at her. No woman should be hit. I will receive a supena....so therefore will be asked to speak and you're right, just tell the truth. I have no reason to lie.

I doubt she's jealous of me, shes a beautiful woman with a great career, I wouldnt say jealous, I would say intimidated. She thinks Im trying to take her place as far as their 6 year old daughter is concerned. And like I WROTE BEFORE, the reason she left that day was because he said, "Im not going to deal with this further, Ill just call the cops." Thats when she got in her car to leave and thats when she tried to run him over, then she left. When we did go to the police station the next day is when they told him to get a restraining order, but would not take a report because anything we were saying could just be hearsay. He didnt file the restraining order because he didnt want his 6 year old to have to experience that.

She didnt file a restraining order until Tuesday of last week. How convenient, a day after Child Services starting investigating her for a letter she wrote to my boyfriend about wanting to get in a car accident with their daughter in the car. If she were SO scared of him then she would have gotten the restraining order in August when he supposedly "held" her. The restraining order was for her and her daughter, as a retaliation, to hit him where its hurts.
 

leech

Member
Domestic violence charge would relate to the Restraining order would it not? Also, if you think that I believe that the system would hold him for no reason, let me give you some crackers to go with your whine. Everyone in prison is innocent...I forgot.


So in your world our justice system is accurate to the fullest? Can I borrow your blindfold while I feast on my crackers and drink my wine? I dont know how many times I have to repeat myself.

A lawyer friend of mine: "The law with domestic violence is crazy now. Anyone can call and report abuse and if there is ANY bruise, the police must issue a warrant for arrest. It's the law now. "

So whether is innocent or not wouldnt be proven until the date of the hearing.
 
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dyinginside

Guest
someone seriously needs to scoop up that little girl and take her to a safe and sane place to live. her mother from what you say is a nutjob (if what your saying is true that is) and the whole situation just doesnt seem healthy to me.

ive lost all interest in the rest of the story~ i just know the kid has to be going through hell. its a shame whatso many parents are teaching their children. just makes you think..."god what are their future relationships destined to be after all they have seen".
 
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dyinginside

Guest
but i almost forgot when i read your reply it will say something like: the child has never been present when anything has ever taken place blah blah blah> seeing as you start out making it all sound so terrible but then go on post after post really just sounding like your trying to reassure yourself that everything will be ok and life is perfect. the end
 

leech

Member
Agreed, the real victim here is their 6 year old daughter. I hope Child Services sees this. I really hope they do.

The mother has no regard for her daughter, she sees this as relatiation towards the father and doesnt realize she is dragging this little girl thru the mud.
 
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dyinginside

Guest
i can finally say im happy with a reply...im glad you see SHE is the REAL victim here
 

leech

Member
dyinginside said:
but i almost forgot when i read your reply it will say something like: the child has never been present when anything has ever taken place blah blah blah> seeing as you start out making it all sound so terrible but then go on post after post really just sounding like your trying to reassure yourself that everything will be ok and life is perfect. the end

I never made anything out to be perfect. I never even said he was perfect, because if he were, he wouldnt have had a child with Satan. Anyway, I just hope for the best and expect the worst. I said I agree, the child is the victim, shes six and has to endure this. Its sad.
 
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dyinginside

Guest
i said i was happy with your reply, not that it matters i mean who the @#$% am i right? lol anyhow i posted the what youd say thing before you replied i am sorry and id delete it, but deleters suck. anyway sorry for the harshness but hey when it comes to kids in a bad sit. its all i can be
 

leech

Member
dyinginside said:
i said i was happy with your reply, not that it matters i mean who the @#$% am i right? lol anyhow i posted the what youd say thing before you replied i am sorry and id delete it, but deleters suck. anyway sorry for the harshness but hey when it comes to kids in a bad sit. its all i can be

Hahahah okay I see, and I know Im harsh too, I just hate getting attacked.

I see where you're coming from, I used to work with children. And when their parents were too caught up in their lives to acknowedge the existence of their kids, its shows in the childs actions. I wouldnt wish that on anyone.
 

leech

Member
dequeendistress said:
If you sleep with your boyfriend you are having sex with satan by proxy.

Thank you for that dequeen, Ill have to remind myself to make an appointment for an Exorcism.

Thank you for commenting because the more you comment, the more convinced I am that you really dont have anything important to say. Have a good day. =)
 

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