dequeendistress said:
Make sure you take that smartypants attitude with you to the hearing...and I hope you marry this guy.
Domestic violence charge would relate to the Restraining order would it not? Also, if you think that I believe that the system would hold him for no reason, let me give you some crackers to go with your whine. Everyone in prison is innocent...I forgot.
So the whole reason for all of this is that the woman is insanely jeoulous of you. Fine you have it all figured out. Tell the world your boyfriend is innocent and everything that he is accused of is because of you.
And if the woman tried to run over anyone, pepper sprayed and keyed a car, you have a copy of the police report to take to your boyfriends hearing right? You are also filing a restraining order, right?
Justification of ones guilt by pointing fingers at someone else is a great defense. You just are not the first one to try and use it.
Actually just tell the truth. If they even ask you to speak.
Good luck.
Hahahah Ill be very sure to leave "my smarty pants attitude" at home. The only thing I have to do is tell the truth and trust me if he were guilty of this, I would be the first to admit it and would not try to justify it by pointing fingers at her. No woman should be hit. I will receive a supena....so therefore will be asked to speak and you're right, just tell the truth. I have no reason to lie.
I doubt she's jealous of me, shes a beautiful woman with a great career, I wouldnt say jealous, I would say intimidated. She thinks Im trying to take her place as far as their 6 year old daughter is concerned. And like I WROTE BEFORE, the reason she left that day was because he said, "Im not going to deal with this further, Ill just call the cops." Thats when she got in her car to leave and thats when she tried to run him over, then she left. When we did go to the police station the next day is when they told him to get a restraining order, but would not take a report because anything we were saying could just be hearsay. He didnt file the restraining order because he didnt want his 6 year old to have to experience that.
She didnt file a restraining order until Tuesday of last week. How convenient, a day after Child Services starting investigating her for a letter she wrote to my boyfriend about wanting to get in a car accident with their daughter in the car. If she were SO scared of him then she would have gotten the restraining order in August when he supposedly "held" her. The restraining order was for her and her daughter, as a retaliation, to hit him where its hurts.