FLA I need legal advice but I need support from other fathers also.

[Proserpina]

That is possible I've thought of that but when they pull up in her car beside me he is very happy he starts glowing. He is crying from the time he has to put his shoes on to go home to his mom until after they leave she gets mad at me because he has a laptop here and they don't allow him any electronics for what reason I'm not sure. Is the refusal of his asthma inhaler really not a big deal? Am I too worried about that and am I too worried about her not putting him into his new school for his special classes they did want him in this new school because there are 2 teachers and 5 students they said he needs more individual attention. They are going to further evaluate him there also. He was supposed to start on the 5th and it's the 26th now and he still hasnt started. Is all this not a big deal because I was going to file for an emergency ex-parte hearing and request full temporary custody until we can have a hearing to figure out the modification. I don't know if that is going to qualify for an emergency to restrict her time sharing or not what do you think?

I see no emergency.

And really - he's FOUR. He doesn't need a laptop.

I'm sorry Dad, but I'm seeing your anxiety and I'm wondering if that isn't rubbing off on your son just a bit, y'know?

 

[Isis1]

That is possible I've thought of that but when they pull up in her car beside me he is very happy he starts glowing. He is crying from the time he has to put his shoes on to go home to his mom until after they leave she gets mad at me because he has a laptop here and they don't allow him any electronics for what reason I'm not sure. Is the refusal of his asthma inhaler really not a big deal? Am I too worried about that and am I too worried about her not putting him into his new school for his special classes they did want him in this new school because there are 2 teachers and 5 students they said he needs more individual attention. They are going to further evaluate him there also. He was supposed to start on the 5th and it's the 26th now and he still hasnt started. Is all this not a big deal because I was going to file for an emergency ex-parte hearing and request full temporary custody until we can have a hearing to figure out the modification. I don't know if that is going to qualify for an emergency to restrict her time sharing or not what do you think?

this is not an emergency for temp custody. the child will not be harmed by delaying the classes.

look, i get it. you are trying to mainstream him as soon as possible. but let the school decide that. let them finish evaluating him. if mom fights THEM, then you work for a court order that puts mom in a position to follow the school's recommendation or she can lose custody. work that vantage point first.

 

[djmastr111]

Well the school did decide that he start on the 5th his mother just hasnt brought him and if I bring him lets say monday he goes home monday night he won't make it tuesday-thursday and will probably be kicked out.

 

[Isis1]

I apologize but about your signature about lawsuits I have also never had anything to gain monetarily for suing for custody I still pay child support as if I had no custody and have never asked to claim him as a dependent but do you think I have a right to these things now? (Lower child support and to claim him as a dependent every other year or maybe the next two years and we split it after that?

okay. hold on.

how long has your court order been in effect?

 

[djmastr111]

Well about 2 and a half years and we've been back for contempt 3 times one time the judge modified to give me more days. Last time he told her next one she is going to jail which is not any good and that was 4 months ago or so. She keeps lying to the judge so he doesn't really like her she is also unreasonable so the judge has always sided with me.

 

[djmastr111]

I think I'm just stupid for not going back to modify child support and stuff I was just trying to avoid her saying "he only wants his son so he doesn't have to pay child support" which she did say and it bothered me so I left it the same.

 

[Isis1]

I think I'm just stupid for not going back to modify child support and stuff I was just trying to avoid her saying "he only wants his son so he doesn't have to pay child support" which she did say and it bothered me so I left it the same.

phew. okay. now, i'd go for a modification based on status quo. and just to let you know...she's gonna say that regardless. don't let it bug you. people say the dumbest things...let her make herself unreasonable. she can do that just fine on her own. she doesn't need your help.

 

[djmastr111]

Thank you, I appreciate the help from everyone here this is a great warm place I usually don't ever get a response from anyone. Ok so as of right now should I just get my son started in school Monday and tell his mom I started him and he needs to be there tuesday-thursday at such and such time until we go back to court or just leave it up to her? The court order does not say she has any more rights than me it only says both parents work together to decide on all major decisions concerning child. So if we don't agree than what? Uni-lateral decision making based on parents best judgement and problem solving abilities? Sorry kind of sounds sarcastic but mother has never informed me of any health problems and tried to hide from me that he ever started school which was why she was held in contempt the last time along with a police report of her telling the cop she doesn't have to follow a M*****-Fu***** court order and that I can do whatever I want with my son. From before our son was born she has tried to keep us apart she even tells our son I'm not daddy and so my son for awhile had came to my house and said your not daddy your mike which now he only does that once in awhile (when me and x are fighting) it bothers me but isn't that big of a deal. She said she wouldn't follow court order in writing on a court paper filed in our paperwork and has done so since the court order was made and now she is still doing just that she is so mad at me she can't function as a parent and it is starting to get to me not because she talks about me in a bad way or treats me bad but because it is hurting our son and is making my son mad at his mother. Seriously can anyone give me advice on what they would do? Is it the right thing to just end this now I can honestly say I have tried my hardest to work this out and his mother is getting a little better but then after a month or so she goes right back to the same old thing (refusing my time with my son and talking badly about me to our sons school staff ) the school staff told me today that I should try to go for neglect charges and I had no intentions nor did I even bring up that word that was all from my sons counselor because she feels the same way about the situation and in her own words said "I'm glad you spoke to his new schools staff you need to keep going don't give up. They will see the same as I did that you are much easier to communicate and deal with." I couldn't possibly go over everything here or I would be typing non stop for a couple years but I mean it seems you are listening am I over reacting? Tell me yes so that I can get some sleep before 3am when I go to work.

 

[Isis1]

Thank you, I appreciate the help from everyone here this is a great warm place I usually don't ever get a response from anyone.

sorry. took a minute to laugh. because i know so many posters that would not agree with you. but thank you

Ok so as of right now should I just get my son started in school Monday and tell his mom I started him and he needs to be there tuesday-thursday at such and such time until we go back to court or just leave it up to her?

you can enroll him. but without a court order, mom doesn't have to take him on her days. and the school may drop him. you need to be prepared for that.

The court order does not say she has any more rights than me it only says both parents work together to decide on all major decisions concerning child. So if we don't agree than what?

court.

Uni-lateral decision making based on parents best judgement and problem solving abilities?

well, doing something without mom's input is not the best judgement OR problem solving. you are creating NEW and BIGGER problems.

Sorry kind of sounds sarcastic but mother has never informed me of any health problems and tried to hide from me that he ever started school which was why she was held in contempt the last time along with a police report of her telling the cop she doesn't have to follow a M*****-Fu***** court order and that I can do whatever I want with my son. From before our son was born she has tried to keep us apart she even tells our son I'm not daddy and so my son for awhile had came to my house and said your not daddy your mike which now he only does that once in awhile (when me and x are fighting) it bothers me but isn't that big of a deal.

let's move forward. you showed her different, didn't you?

She said she wouldn't follow court order in writing on a court paper filed in our paperwork and has done so since the court order was made and now she is still doing just that she is so mad at me she can't function as a parent and it is starting to get to me not because she talks about me in a bad way or treats me bad but because it is hurting our son and is making my son mad at his mother.

if she is truely doing this, then she is hurting herself in the end.

Seriously can anyone give me advice on what they would do? Is it the right thing to just end this now I can honestly say I have tried my hardest to work this out and his mother is getting a little better but then after a month or so she goes right back to the same old thing (refusing my time with my son and talking badly about me to our sons school staff )

you can't control mom. you can control how you react to her.

the school staff told me today that I should try to go for neglect charges and I had no intentions nor did I even bring up that word that was all from my sons counselor because she feels the same way about the situation and in her own words said "I'm glad you spoke to his new schools staff you need to keep going don't give up. They will see the same as I did that you are much easier to communicate and deal with."

first off, right there. a MANDATED REPORTER said YOU should move for neglect charges??? they are required BY LAW TO REPORT NEGLECT. now, i'd never listen to a word they said after that.

I couldn't possibly go over everything here or I would be typing non stop for a couple years but I mean it seems you are listening am I over reacting? Tell me yes so that I can get some sleep before 3am when I go to work.

overreacting? not yet. i do think you may be underreacting by not going to court and making it known certain issues need to be addressed. look into getting a GAL.

 

[djmastr111]

I filed a petition for modification and asked about getting a guardian ad litem. I don't know how to react because the things she says (lies) make me mad and the cop that was there one time said my attitude is going to get me in trouble but he also said he would've taken my side. She lies and it makes me mad because what if one day people actually start to believe her? The judge hasn't ever fallen for it. I am in the start of a modification which I filed a week and a half ago but I'm confused because the lawyer I talked to said do not put evidence in with the petition wait for her response but then it is mediation but I was planning on walking out of mediation because I'm not sure if I'm wanting to even waste my time because the last time we sat for 4 hours came up with a plan and she said forget it and walked out but I won't agree to anything less than her getting every other weekend in mediation because I truely believe I can have her parental rights terminated if I wanted this is the record of the man she is leaving our child with. posted below. It just makes me mad. The judge isn't even willing to hear anything about the DCF investigations or anything else in a contempt hearing but this also didn't qualify for an emergency hearing but I am pretty sure the judge won't have a problem giving me full custody from what I now consider joint after all of the things shes done. Any inputs? below the background from one county *this is not his whole criminal history his children were taken from him 3 to be exact.* I will post a little of my documentation if anyone cares to give me some input and tell me how I can turn this documentation into evidence to use against her. I also had a question can personal statements from friends and family help in court? Was it illegal for me to record our conversation that we had face to face at the police station during an exchange of our child without her knowing? Can I use that in court? If it was illegal what kind of punishment can the judge do if I start playing the recording in court? If all I have to worry about is her suing me then thats fine just wondering. the rest of this post is background of ex's boyfriend and some documentation.

Case NumberCitation NumberStyle/Defendant InfoFiled/Location/Judicial OfficerType/StatusCharge(s)1986-CC-005118-O

WARD PROPERTIES INC, et al vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
09/17/1986
Div 71
Ansbro, Deborah B
CC - Eviction
Closed - SRS

1987-CC-007282-O

MEHAFFEY, VIRGINIA L vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/11/1987
Div 70
Jordan, John E
CC - Eviction
Closed - SRS

1989-CF-006710-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
07/11/1989
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1990-CA-003728-O

EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
03/11/1998
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
POSSESSION OF COCAINE
1998-CF-003128-O

VISTANA RESORT DEV INC F K A, et al vs. NICHOLSON, MARY A et al
05/03/1990
Div 34
Kest, John Marshall
CA - Mortgage Foreclosure (filed prior to 6/1/2009)
Closed - SRS

1992-CF-005413-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
05/26/1992
Circuit Criminal Divisions - Felony

Criminal Felony
Closed
AGGRAVATED ASSAULT
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1992-MM-010955-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
05/26/1992
Orlando
Jewett, Steve
Misdemeanor
Closed
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
CR-IMPROPER EXHIBITION OF WEAPON OR FIREARM
1995-CF-002468-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
03/02/1995
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
CR-POSSESSION OF CANNABIS <20 GRAMS
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1996-MM-025847-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
09/24/1996
Orlando
Jewett, Steve
Misdemeanor
Closed
CR-POSSESSION OF CANNABIS <20 GRAMS
1998-DR-013017-O

EDWARDS, DEBORAH L vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
10/16/1998
Div 42
Evans, Robert M
Dissolution of Marriage
Closed - SRS

2000-MM-001048-A-A
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
07/26/2000
Apopka
Craner, A James
Misdemeanor
Closed
CRUELTY TO ANIMALS
2000-CO-001067-A-A
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
08/01/2000
Apopka
Craner, A James
County Ordinance
Closed
TREAT ANY ANIMAL IN A NEGLECTFUL MANNER
REFUSE/FAIL TO HAVE DOG/CAT VACC AGAINST RABIES
REFUSE/FAIL TO OBTAIN RABIES LIC. TAG/DOG/CAT
2000-TR-161711-A-O
2228APF
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/04/2000
Orlando
Cheek, Leon B, III
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
T UNLAWFUL SPEED
2000-TR-161712-A-O
2229APF
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/04/2000
Orlando
Cheek, Leon B, III
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
T seat belt not worn by driver
2004-CF-009229-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
07/19/2004
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
THEFT
2005-CA-002148-O

FLORIDA DEPARTMENT OF HIGHWAY SAFETY AND MOTOR VEH, vs. IN RE FORFEITURE OF 1992 DODGE CARAVAN (BLUE/WHITE, et al
03/10/2005
Div 35
Strickland, Stan
CA - Auto Forfeiture
Pending

2007-TR-227465-A-O
3615FCQ
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/19/2007
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
TR- DRIVING WITH UNSAFE EQUIPMENT
2009-CF-013629-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
06/24/1969
09/16/2009
Div 16
Adams, John H, SR
Criminal Felony
Closed
CR-BURGLARY
CR - POSSESSION OF BURGLARY TOOLS
CR-CRIMINAL MISCHIEF (<=$200)
2010-TR-087803-A-O
7983-RSO
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
06/28/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
TR-FAIL TO CHANGE NAME/ADDRESS OF DL WITHIN
2010-TR-119802-A-O
0552-SQJ
EDWARDS, ARTHUSR
08/25/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
TR- SEAT BELT NOT WORN BY DRIVER
2010-TR-130455-A-O
6108-SQJ
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
09/13/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
TR- FAILURE TO PAY TOLL



March 15th
I texted Shirel to ask if Jeremiah has school tomorrow she replied "no"

March 16th
I called head start they said Shirel has everything Jeremiah needs to start at his new school he will be in a class with 5 students and 2 teachers. What upsets me is that he was supposed to start on March 5th 2012. I went up to the new school they said he hasn't started yet and that his mother was saying she was going out of town which she said to head start two weeks ago. They had him down for school to start on the 5th and had a diagnosis of developmentally delayed. I had been told by a few people (My doctor, the ER doctor, Jeremiah's doctor) to have him checked for autism I don't believe it is autism either but I do think that there is something wrong which is causing him to be behind. He was not potty trained until he was 3 years old. He also didn't start talking or knowing his numbers or abc's until he started head start which was at 4 years old. I know he is smart and I know that he knows what is going on but I am expecting more out of him.

9-19-2011 7pm

Jeremiah and me were waiting at the police from 5:45pm until 7pm we just got back and she started talking bad about me so I hung up. She called back and said I said 10:15pm and I have a message she is starting stuff over and over and if he has school in the morning how is she going to pick him at 10:15pm he should be sleeping.

I went to the courthouse today and filed an emergency motion with the police report no luck. It seems as if no one is going to pay any attention I'm guessing emotional abuse is not any form of abuse in the law or to police/child and families. Now I have never violated a single item on our court order and she has violated it time after time and thats why she doesn't take it serious because she gets away with it everytime with only being told don't do it anymore.


sorry I don't know if this is safe to post all of this here or not thats a little bit I don't know if i leave it as is or change all of my documentation to support my allegations in my petition.

 

[Ohiogal]

SAnipped and comments

I truely believe I can have her parental rights terminated if I wanted

NO you could NOT. Just to let you know. Wrong.

this is the record of the man she is leaving our child with. posted below. It just makes me mad. <snip> If all I have to worry about is her suing me then thats fine just wondering. the rest of this post is background of ex's boyfriend and some documentation.

Let us go through it.

Case NumberCitation NumberStyle/Defendant InfoFiled/Location/Judicial OfficerType/StatusCharge(s)1986-CC-005118-O

WARD PROPERTIES INC, et al vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
09/17/1986
Div 71
Ansbro, Deborah B
CC - Eviction
Closed - SRS

1987-CC-007282-O

Poverty. NOT an indication of danger. 26 years ago -- NOT relevant.

MEHAFFEY, VIRGINIA L vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/11/1987
Div 70
Jordan, John E
CC - Eviction
Closed - SRS

No indication of danger. Plus 25 years ago. Are you JOKING?

1989-CF-006710-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
07/11/1989
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1990-CA-003728-O

Your child is 4???? This was 23 years ago? What are YOU on that you think that this is RELEVANT?

EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
03/11/1998
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
POSSESSION OF COCAINE
1998-CF-003128-O

16 years ago? Your child is 4? How is this relevant today? Is he still using cocaine and can you PROVE IT?

VISTANA RESORT DEV INC F K A, et al vs. NICHOLSON, MARY A et al
05/03/1990
Div 34
Kest, John Marshall
CA - Mortgage Foreclosure (filed prior to 6/1/2009)
Closed - SRS

Who is Mary? Why does she matter?

1992-CF-005413-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
05/26/1992
Circuit Criminal Divisions - Felony

Criminal Felony
Closed
AGGRAVATED ASSAULT
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1992-MM-010955-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
05/26/1992
Orlando
Jewett, Steve
Misdemeanor
Closed

10 years ago? What was the controlled substance? What was the assault? Your child is FOUR????

CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
CR-IMPROPER EXHIBITION OF WEAPON OR FIREARM
1995-CF-002468-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
03/02/1995
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed
CR-POSSESSION OF CANNABIS <20 GRAMS
CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE OFFENSE
1996-MM-025847-A-O

1995? Matters not. 1996? Really?

EDWARDS, ARTHUR EARL, JR
04/24/1963
09/24/1996
Orlando
Jewett, Steve
Misdemeanor
Closed
CR-POSSESSION OF CANNABIS <20 GRAMS
1998-DR-013017-O

Seriously????

EDWARDS, DEBORAH L vs. EDWARDS, ARTHUR
10/16/1998
Div 42
Evans, Robert M
Dissolution of Marriage
Closed - SRS

He got divorced in 1998. You broke up with your baby's mama. Not seeing a problem.

2000-MM-001048-A-A
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
07/26/2000
Apopka
Craner, A James
Misdemeanor
Closed
CRUELTY TO ANIMALS
2000-CO-001067-A-A
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
08/01/2000
Apopka
Craner, A James
County Ordinance
Closed
TREAT ANY ANIMAL IN A NEGLECTFUL MANNER
REFUSE/FAIL TO HAVE DOG/CAT VACC AGAINST RABIES
REFUSE/FAIL TO OBTAIN RABIES LIC. TAG/DOG/CAT
2000-TR-161711-A-O
2228APF
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/04/2000
Orlando
Cheek, Leon B, III
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed

He did not get a rabies vaccine in 2000. That is harmful to your child (born later) HOW?

T UNLAWFUL SPEED
2000-TR-161712-A-O
2229APF
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/04/2000
Orlando
Cheek, Leon B, III
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed

In 2000 he got a speeding ticket. Not seeing danger. Did he wreck? Was your child (not yet born) in the car?

T seat belt not worn by driver
2004-CF-009229-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
04/07/1952
07/19/2004
Div 15
LeBlanc, Bob
Criminal Felony
Closed

Umm he did not wear a seatbelt. How that matters I do not know.

THEFT
2005-CA-002148-O

FLORIDA DEPARTMENT OF HIGHWAY SAFETY AND MOTOR VEH, vs. IN RE FORFEITURE OF 1992 DODGE CARAVAN (BLUE/WHITE, et al
03/10/2005
Div 35
Strickland, Stan
CA - Auto Forfeiture
Pending

And?

2007-TR-227465-A-O
3615FCQ
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
12/19/2007
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed
TR- DRIVING WITH UNSAFE EQUIPMENT
2009-CF-013629-A-O
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
06/24/1969
09/16/2009

What unsafe equipment? Too dark windows? Come on now. It was an INFRACTION!

Div 16
Adams, John H, SR
Criminal Felony
Closed
CR-BURGLARY
CR - POSSESSION OF BURGLARY TOOLS
CR-CRIMINAL MISCHIEF (<=$200)
2010-TR-087803-A-O
7983-RSO
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
06/28/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed

Lets go with was he convicted and how did that endanger your child?

TR-FAIL TO CHANGE NAME/ADDRESS OF DL WITHIN
2010-TR-119802-A-O
0552-SQJ
EDWARDS, ARTHUSR
08/25/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed

He moved without a new driver's license. How does that prove danger to your child? Seriously.

TR- SEAT BELT NOT WORN BY DRIVER
2010-TR-130455-A-O
6108-SQJ
EDWARDS, ARTHUR
09/13/2010
Orlando
Officer, 98 Hearing
Civil Traffic Infraction
Closed

He doesn't wear seat belts. BOO! But that is NOT proof he doesn't buckle others.

TR- FAILURE TO PAY TOLL

Okay. And?

March 15th
I texted Shirel to ask if Jeremiah has school tomorrow she replied "no"

March 16th
I called head start they said Shirel has everything Jeremiah needs to start at his new school he will be in a class with 5 students and 2 teachers. What upsets me is that he was supposed to start on March 5th 2012.

He is FOUR! He is not required to be in school at all. Parenting difference.

I went up to the new school they said he hasn't started yet and that his mother was saying she was going out of town which she said to head start two weeks ago. They had him down for school to start on the 5th and had a diagnosis of developmentally delayed. I had been told by a few people (My doctor, the ER doctor, Jeremiah's doctor) to have him checked for autism I don't believe it is autism either but I do think that there is something wrong which is causing him to be behind. He was not potty trained until he was 3 years old. He also didn't start talking or knowing his numbers or abc's until he started head start which was at 4 years old. I know he is smart and I know that he knows what is going on but I am expecting more out of him.

Maybe you are unrealistic.

9-19-2011 7pm

WHAT?

Jeremiah and me were waiting at the police from 5:45pm until 7pm we just got back and she started talking bad about me so I hung up. She called back and said I said 10:15pm and I have a message she is starting stuff over and over and if he has school in the morning how is she going to pick him at 10:15pm he should be sleeping.

I went to the courthouse today and filed an emergency motion with the police report no luck. It seems as if no one is going to pay any attention I'm guessing emotional abuse is not any form of abuse in the law or to police/child and families. Now I have never violated a single item on our court order and she has violated it time after time and thats why she doesn't take it serious because she gets away with it everytime with only being told don't do it anymore.

Depends on WHAT she violates and HOW.

 

[djmastr111]

I'm sorry the background was there just to show what type of people she befriends. All of her friends have the same background. She was arrested when she was pregnant for assault on me. It's not just these things and I don't want to have her parental rights terminated those things I had posted were just the first things I had came across in my documentation that I was using as an example. This background on that guy is the most recent things should it bother me that he is 50 and she was only 19 when they got together? I'm saying that there is a reason that my son does not like going there. There is a reason he won't talk about it. I guess for the most part he is alright and yes he is with me on weekends but she works weekends and is off weekdays anyways so weekdays should be there fun days and about him supposed to be in school on March 5th and it's the 27th now is that he was in head start and they evaluated him to be in these special classes February 2nd shes had 2 months now and he is signed up he just hasn't started. Is this agreed that if I start him in this new school then tell her and she takes him out after the school board recommended that he be there the courts will probably court order that he be there?

 

[Isis1]

I'm sorry the background was there just to show what type of people she befriends. All of her friends have the same background. She was arrested when she was pregnant for assault on me. It's not just these things and I don't want to have her parental rights terminated those things I had posted were just the first things I had came across in my documentation that I was using as an example. This background on that guy is the most recent things should it bother me that he is 50 and she was only 19 when they got together? I'm saying that there is a reason that my son does not like going there. There is a reason he won't talk about it. I guess for the most part he is alright and yes he is with me on weekends but she works weekends and is off weekdays anyways so weekdays should be there fun days and about him supposed to be in school on March 5th and it's the 27th now is that he was in head start and they evaluated him to be in these special classes February 2nd shes had 2 months now and he is signed up he just hasn't started. Is this agreed that if I start him in this new school then tell her and she takes him out after the school board recommended that he be there the courts will probably court order that he be there?

can you reword that? with spaces and punctuation? that is very hard to read.

and NO, nothing you listed is ANY reason from mom to lose her parental rights. stop going in that direction. you are wasting your energy. use your energy for your child. not trying to take away mom's constitutional rights is not going to help you one bit.

 

[Ohiogal]

I'm sorry the background was there just to show what type of people she befriends. All of her friends have the same background.

Really? ALL of her friends have the SAME background? What about your friends? have you done your background checks? EVER SINGLE ONE OF THEM?

She was arrested when she was pregnant for assault on me. It's not just these things and I don't want to have her parental rights terminated those things I had posted were just the first things I had came across in my documentation that I was using as an example.

WHY did you impregnate her if she is so HORRIBLE? You won't get her parental rights terminated.

This background on that guy is the most recent things should it bother me that he is 50 and she was only 19 when they got together?

LEGALLY, no. That is perfectly LEGAL.

I'm saying that there is a reason that my son does not like going there. There is a reason he won't talk about it.

Prove it is a reason detrimental to him. Without hearsay.

I guess for the most part he is alright and yes he is with me on weekends but she works weekends and is off weekdays anyways so weekdays should be there fun days and about him supposed to be in school on March 5th and it's the 27th now is that he was in head start and they evaluated him to be in these special classes February 2nd shes had 2 months now and he is signed up he just hasn't started.

He is FOUR. School is NOT mandated by law and is NOT required by law. Where does it state he is to be in school NOW? OR 2 months ago?

Is this agreed that if I start him in this new school then tell her and she takes him out after the school board recommended that he be there the courts will probably court order that he be there?

Nope. Because it is not a LAW that he attend school at his age. It is NOT agreed that you start him IF SHE removes him. Doesn't matter what the school board states because legally they have no INPUT unless granted by statute.

 

[djmastr111]

She had violated our court order by refusing my parenting time she didn't bring him on that friday and never called and ended up not bringing him for the whole weekend. She did that 7 times. He did not hold her in contempt for that but instead give me an extra day permanently saying that we had agreed on that as a modification which she did not shes never agreed to anything in court except for me to have supervised visitation which I did for 6 months because I didn't know what I was doing and had agreed to it then when I asked for every weekend the judge went from one hour a month supervised visits to every weekend in one status hearing I had requested that was the best day of my life. I take everything very seriously my sons mother is the opposite she doesn't take it serious but she doesn't live a happy life either she always looks upset whenever someone talks to me about her it is something about how mad she looks at all times. I have tried and tried for us to work things out outside of court she wouldn't do it and after 4 years she now seems like she wants to try and keep things out of court but we still don't agree she just wants things to stay the things (I think it's because she is realizing that the things she is doing are wrong) One recent thing is her refusing to give me the asthma inhaler and allergy pills. I don't mind going back to court now because I think me promising to keep her informed of school and putting her down as an emergency contact and doing these things quickly If he was supposed to start his new school on the 5th I would have him in on the 4th I can promise these things at all costs. I'm a college student and I work a job 3 days a week and I also own my own company (it's a small company that I use when I'm not working to get me by on my bills). I think he is better off with me either way I REALLY think he is better off with both of us the same but with me being responsible for school and doctor decisions. I won't keep her in the dark about everything. That is my big reason forget the drugs and assault from her and her boyfriend. I am planning on using this for court now. I will keep her informed and do these same things she is doing but not a month later I will do them right then. Is it a big deal for a father to get not physical custody whats the other type? I can promise you this here and now. If I was court ordered to keep my son from his mother *I would not!* I know how it feels I never got to spend much time with my father and recently got in contact with him again and had a good time speaking with him he loved me I could feel it. I was going to bring my son to see him after I got permission from the courts to leave the state with my son. My step mother died a month ago and then my father died last week.