Recent content by Badhead

What is the name of your state? Minnesota I have physical custody and share legal custody with exhusband. Ex has had the same girlfriend, now a fiance, for about 6 years now. She is NOT stepmother legally as of yet. Needless to say, her and I do NOT get along, which is a separate issue...

Thanks, Stealth2. I realize what you are saying and know the options. These are emotional issues, however, and I can see lots of pain in some of these posts. In response to the pain and emotion, I'll see honest answers, I'm sure; however, they're given in almost a cruel way. Just to the...

Again - the way in which things are worded - it's unreal!! I hope trouble never comes your way and you ask questions looking for kindness and guidance....like I stated before....there are ways to put things. This way is so harsh! Badhead

Thanks - cause you're right - I'm very, very far from being "jealous" of the new fiancee. Remember, she is NOT NOT NOT a stepmom yet. You all have referred to her as that, but she isn't. I wasn't going into a huge, lengthy background into why I feel the way I do...I was kind of trusting...

Truly sorry for offending you. Wasn't my intention. Thanks again for input. Really. Badhead

Very interesting dialogue! Of course, you all are basing opinions of the situation on what I've said so far and not the whole situation. But, that's okay. I know the truth of the situation and that's what counts. I just wanted to know if she could "legally" get school information. A simple...

Do I understand where you are coming from!!! I asked this very same question myself back a few months ago!!! And, it wasn't a stepmom, it was a girlfriend at the time. Even now, she is a fiancee. I got the same advice you got. What I don't understand is why is everybody so sarcastic?? Why...

So sorry to hear what you're going through!! I just went through the same thing!! I've been divorced since December 31, 1998. My ex met his current fiancee in 1999, and she basically moved in with him in late 1999 or early 2000 (I'm not exactly sure of date.). I have custodial custody and we...

Okay. That's the reality. Thanks. I really do appreciate all your comments. You have helped me sort through this. Badhead

Interesting replies. Thanks for responding to me. I totally understand where you are coming from when saying my son's emotional wellbeing and stability, etc., are important. Also, that he is and knows he is loved by all. However, my question was if she could "legally" get his school records...

Thanks for the responses. I understand that you wanted me to see both sides. Trust me, the animosity is not on my side. I've tried to be friendly with her all along. She is the unfriendly one. I don't think the second person really read my post very well. This woman has "bad mouthed" me...

What is the name of your state? Minnesota My ex-husband has been seeing a woman for about 6 years now. They are engaged but are not married yet. Since this woman has come into our lives; there have been nothing but problems for me. I have physical custody of our son and we have joint legal...

Thanks!! Badhead

What is the name of your state? MN I posted here back in June 2003 telling you all about a memo I received from my boss saying what my "job responsibilities and expectations" were, since she felt I was missing so much work due to FMLA. I also informed you at that time that she wanted me to...

You all are very kind. Once I realized what you were saying was true....I felt really bad for my son. The LAST THING I want to do is make him feel worse than he already does about the situation. He's made comments in the past about mommy and daddy getting married again. Even though he has no...