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What is the name of your state? IN Mail has been returned stamped by the post office "UNNKOWN ADDRESSEE" twice. The NCP says he still lives at the same address as always but with mail returned by the post office am I lead to believe he is not. Do I still let our child go with him for...

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Indiana I posted a few times last year and early this year before retaining an attorney. This is the first...

monnickasmommy's sister, From what I get from your post is that your 7 year old is the one on medication. She will probably be on it her entire life, there will be adjustments over the years and she will become more familiar with medications and how to take care of herself as she ages. I...

As long as by "nurturing" you don't mean co-dependant, yes. lol, either way to a certain degree, yes. I wish I would not have missed what your original post was.

Fact remains that our son went through the evaluation and they went strictly by the testing and talking with our son. There isn't any bad stuff said about my ex but plenty of good stuff about myself and how I should be commended and plenty of good stuff about our son. That's good enough...

IAAL, I was a spanker too, I spanked him right into honor roll by the end of second grade. At some point the spanking and yelling has to stop, it shuts the kid down and NOTHING get's accomplished and the relationship suffers. I also have a constantly threatening, bad mouthing, behind the...

I have heard every teacher since second year preschool suggest that I have my son evaluated for ADD/ADHD. I went to his pediatrician and he voiced his educated opinion that it's nothing to worry about until first grade. Don't take that as you should wait until first grade if your child hasn't...

What is the name of your state? Indiana I got a Notice of right to request review of child support order in the mail. I guess this is what the ex has been talking about what he gets every few months. I asked him to give me copies of these since I have never seen this sort of thing before...

tammy, it's been done. Even when I didn't know about any decree or arrangement that people make for cohabitation or overnights I still got married without any overnights before marriage and without living together first. People used to do that. Normally, if the child isn't harmed or adversly...

So, she's moved on. He's a loser. They are having sex. All this is happening right in front of your child and the child is clearly being adversly affected by this. It sounds like you two aren't "agreeing" on much of anything so far. I went the "old fashioned way" before I married my current...

LMSP is correct. I'm a CP from Indiana and have dealt with direct pay and have given written forgiveness for direct pay before. Now I have signed an affidavit stating I cannot accept it and cannot forgive anymore. I have been told by two clerks that it is NEVER suggested nor encouraged that...

I hear you on that, thanks for the advice. Yes, i'm the one in Marion county. Yes, I have heard the "he will build up so much resentment towards you that he will eventually come live with me", you will fail and when you do I will be there....all that The biggest thing I fear is the crap he...

Child support stopped last year after his two rounds of unemployment stopped. He became a more beligerent version of himself. I'm sure I became the same to him. I react to his bs and verbal abuse still. Our son has been suffering way before then in school and blah blah I find there are mixed...

I understand nextwife's tone. Even numbered years: Spring break belongs to the non-custodial parent. I extended the offer knowing he wouldn't do anything and then piss and moan at the last minute and blame me for not informing him when he doesn't take initiative. He's never persued or...