Recent content by iperez21083

might be mother lol

I agree. Dating him was not a smart choice on my part. I met him through a cousin of mine. We started dating and I got pregnant, we made many plans and were both excited/happy when we found out I was pregnant but 4 months later I guess he changed his mind and decided he didn't want to live the...

I know adoption cannot be done with out biological fathers permission or until she is 18 and can decide for her self and make a request as an adult. she does express she wishes it could be done but knows it cant

Thats what a lawyer told me to do. To stay put and wait on my ex to take the first step and then go from there.

My question really had nothing to do with her calling my husband dad lol but hey I guess it took another turn.

He did serve the sentence time but it was reduced. So he got out earlier. Understand now? I just copied and paste what came out on the corrections website. But he didn't do the whole 12 years.

He was out when she was conceived in ending January beginning Feb and went back in 2009 (he left me when I was 3 almost 4 month pregnant for an ex gf of his that came back into his life got him an apartment new car etc... then they wanted me to have an abortion and I kept her) and continued my...

Thank you I agree

My ex is coming out in 1 year and I am going on two years being married to my husband. My daughter always new about her biological father. He has never been in the picture but she always new of him. I never kept him a secret.

I agree with you. I personally don't see anything wrong with it but to each his/her own.

I understand your opinion on that and I respect it.

I agree she is a child, but if a child is fearful of someone and doesn't want to be around that person I think it might be kind of traumatizing for a child to be forced. Like for example she has no say about going to school or not (only misses when sick which she doesnt even ask to miss when she...

I totally understand your comment, he didn't do all the time given.

She started to call him dad, it was something that happened. And I never told her not to. As I never told her to do it either. She is well aware he is not her biological father but has mentioned to me that she wants him to legally adopt her.

He has stated before that he wont take me to court. That he will respect when she wants to see him or not. But he said's that now while he is in jail.