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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? NY I was at work one day, when in the back room, the janitor was singing the Pointer Sisters song "I'm So Excited" rearranging the lyrics, singing about how "horny" he was. I left the room, disgusted. The next day, I told my...

Quitting If you willingly leave a job, most courts show no mercy, because they look at that as the NCP's effort to avoid child support. Only if you're laid off will they POSSIBLY lower the amount (and you can be without a job - the courts don't care, you're still obligated to pay support for...

a suggestion http://www.secondwives.org i suggest you go here...maybe you can get some help with your issues with his ex.

I had to comment here.... Hi MSM, Remember me, Jenifa? I had a baby in November 2000, and had fallen away from the boards for a while. I hope you're doing well and have a great holiday! Jenifa

Hi sweet, Question: How often do the issues heat up and blow outs occur on this forum? Can we start a pleasant thread to balance the current blow ups on the forum...in the spirit of the holidays? LOL I am going through a lot of stuff with my current situation (and I thank my old friends here...

Hello IAAL, I'd like to bite you. ;) do you bite back? Oh, it wasn't THAT kind of invitation? oops...lol Happy Holidays to you also, you sweet person, you. Jenifa

your dilemma I understand that completely, my brother went through that in the Bronx with his ex denying court-ordered visitation. Most Child Support Collection Units have been put into effect in recent years (within the last 10, I'd say), so I think if enough NCPs push for legislation...

pay for ear piercing? He should refuse to pay 1/2 the ear piercing and tell his child he'll buy her a pair of earrings instead...she'll like that more than him paying for 1/2 the ear piercing, anyway. I suggested not to let her petty b.s. get to you/your husband, but please don't interpret...

I know you didn't ask for advice, but you did post on an advice board, and being that so many go through being on both sides of the isse, I want to give you at least acknowledgement for you woes. Your last sentence really said a lot, and I've gotta inform you of something you most likely...

*** Yes, once parental rights have been terminated, the parent longer has legal rights. I don't understand your comment about greed for money being the reason she won't let you see the kids. Does you seeing them take money away from her? Your rights weren't taken...you had a choice...and...

Legally... you are the child's father - case closed. you pay support and have rights to visitation. If she doesn't abide by the court order, she is in contempt, just as you are if you abruptly stop paying support, so at least petition the court to enforce visitation. PS - morally, you have...

counties Honestly, under normal circumstances, I do not know how the family court is. In our case, the mother (respondent) didn't show up out of fear of being arrested for child abuse/neglect, so when a plaintiff shows up to two court dates, and the respondent doesn't so much as call the...

Been there... My SD was mentally abused for 10 years (verbal, neglect, endangering her welfare), and there was no proving it. I called the 800# for child abuse so often, I should have had the dam thing on speed dial. You CAN call anonymously, ask questions, and report something if you feel...

Counties Orange and Richmond

Buying hershey shoes... Whoops... :p I missed each inch of everyone (at least each letter in their name...lol)