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dannic9647 said:A better relationship with her?? Someone who threatens on a daily basis to take my kids form me?? Someone who has called DHS on 4 different occassions and filed false allegations against me?? Someone who thought it was funny on a night that my child had a105 fever and was in the ER, NOT to let me speak to his father to tell him what was going on?? Someone who has made a total ass out of herself in my yard and IN FRONT OF THE KIDS?? and someone who my children have expressed more then once that they do NOT want around???
Sure, I want her as a friend....
What I was saying is this... ASK THE KIDS WHAT THEY WANT... LET THEM FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE SOME CONTROL in this awful situation...
And I am not being a bitchy ex wife, I am looking out for myself and my kids...
And to clarify, I never said that the person I was dating would not be a good candidate to be around my kids... I was simply saying that he and I felt that it was not time yet for the kids to meet him. What if he is gone next week?? I am not the kind of mom that feels her kids should be brought around every person I date.... SOrry if you disagree.. JMHO... they dont need to think that dating a new person every week or every month for that matter is reality.. because it isnt...
right because you are teaching the children to be monogamous even though you are everything but monogomous.
Look I am not trying to badger you.
I will say it again, I'm not saying she has to be your best friend. I'm sure she is the piece of crap you are describing.... but if you are ignoring her how can she tell you she is going to take your kids away? (on a daily basis like you said) **rolls her eyes**
If you give her ZERO attention when she shows up IN THE CAR don't you think that is better than making an ass of yourself?
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