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setha
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Like I said; I totally feel for you, but take the child out of the middle. Don't put her in the situation to HAVE to answer the questions; as much as you hate talking to the jerk, it is YOUR responsibility to handle the visitation, and if you make the decision to not have her visit, then, as the adult, you must talk with him and give him the reasons why she/they can't come. I only caution this because I have put the child in the middle before and it only leads to them feeling guilty and confused. Did you guys have to take a Children in the mIddle class when you divorced? Missouri and Iowa have those; which is where I was from. AGain, he is a total jerk and totally uncooperative and unreasonable, but you are stuck with him until they turn 18 or out of college, so be strong!
Like I said; I totally feel for you, but take the child out of the middle. Don't put her in the situation to HAVE to answer the questions; as much as you hate talking to the jerk, it is YOUR responsibility to handle the visitation, and if you make the decision to not have her visit, then, as the adult, you must talk with him and give him the reasons why she/they can't come. I only caution this because I have put the child in the middle before and it only leads to them feeling guilty and confused. Did you guys have to take a Children in the mIddle class when you divorced? Missouri and Iowa have those; which is where I was from. AGain, he is a total jerk and totally uncooperative and unreasonable, but you are stuck with him until they turn 18 or out of college, so be strong!