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When your IP address is located, you will be unable to deny that they are your posts. It really isn't hard - at all. But of course, you are above the law so I am sure you think that won't apply to you either.
 

CJane

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When your IP address is located, you will be unable to deny that they are your posts. It really isn't hard - at all. But of course, you are above the law so I am sure you think that won't apply to you either.

I wonder if dearest salad understands that if opposing counsel asks him "Have you ever posted on an advice message board/forum?" He will either need to ADMIT or LIE to the court.
 
Nothing to lose

When your IP address is located, you will be unable to deny that they are your posts. It really isn't hard - at all. But of course, you are above the law so I am sure you think that won't apply to you either.

I came here for advice, I never recieved any. just ripping on me, just telling me to do whatever it is you guys have told me to do. mostly move to wisconsin and YOU KNOW IT!!!!!! thats what everybody has said. they (you) said I butchered my pleadings ect ect. Obviously since ive been a member I have paid attention to alot of post and alot of advice geared toward mothers and mothers only....Have not seen Dads get advice....I firmly believe this is VAWA funded! Therefore I have not taken the site as SERIouS in recent months and have made some rather unserious comments! There is a posting history that will tell this tale.....Dont try an scare me!!!!!

Anyways there is already an order of protection so IF there was a threat on here which there isnt I still wouldnt be worried! Its not illegal to make threats of glaring in a court room and I know this! DUH? also mom supposedly has a recording of me saying im coming to sheboygan...Should I be worried I said Im coming to a town!!!! oh my gawd that means Im gonna blow the town up uh????? man I need to be arrested for opening a custody case on a woman!!!!! if that was a crime, Covict me now! Cause I sure as hell did, and now she is paying out the yazoo for it!

Like the title says, I got nothing to lose. no fear either! Ill take some real advice though.....

Here is my plan....If the court were to relinquish jurisdiction to florida I will ask that i dont want to hinder mom or the child with a move, which at this point is the truth! I will wait and be there for the final jurisdiction hearing though and weigh my options on the appeal as I will not bow down and let them take the custody I was given**************I will make it very long and arduous and expensive and come back at them with a very sympathetic payment plan for the gal as in 25 a week....haha remember I was left because I was "Financially irresponsible" touche




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cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
I came here for adviceI never recieved any... just telling me to do

So, what did YOU think advice was if not suggestions on what to do?
 
dang!!!

I came here for adviceI never recieved any... just telling me to do

So, what did YOU think advice was if not suggestions on what to do?

yOU GOT ME.... I still stand behind evrything else....also To whoever said Im chasing the woman 1300 miles**************That was free advice to move to wisconsin and be with my child because many NCP s dont get that opportunity!
 
I feel bad for her as well that she thought she was just gonna up and leave and Id be like "oh well ill just let her do her thing"


Spinner, you just don't get it at all. She had every right to leave you. Everyone has the right to stay or leave any relationship. This statement. This attitude. Both make you a credible threat to her safety. You need real help.

i guess my friend, i mean the judge will decide that.

If statements like this and all your other statements are your idea of fun, or your idea of a joke, or your idea of playing/jokes, this also speaks of your problems, your inability to let go (obsession) and your need to control.

You are dangerous to your ex and need help.

OhioGal, if you need anything from me, please PM me and I'll be happy to help.

And Spinner, I feel so strongly about your actions, that yes, if necessary, I'd be more than happy to travel to wherever at my expense if it helps to ensure the safety of anyone. And no, I don't know you or your ex, have never spoken or emailed or any type of communication with any of you except my postings to you on this forum.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
Spinner, you just don't get it at all. She had every right to leave you. Everyone has the right to stay or leave any relationship. This statement. This attitude. Both make you a credible threat to her safety. You need real help.



If statements like this and all your other statements are your idea of fun, or your idea of a joke, or your idea of playing/jokes, this also speaks of your problems, your inability to let go (obsession) and your need to control.

You are dangerous to your ex and need help.

OhioGal, if you need anything from me, please PM me and I'll be happy to help.

And Spinner, I feel so strongly about your actions, that yes, if necessary, I'd be more than happy to travel to wherever at my expense if it helps to ensure the safety of anyone. And no, I don't know you or your ex, have never spoken or emailed or any type of communication with any of you except my postings to you on this forum.

Thanks! I think I got it handled though. It is so sad. And there is enough on here that mom can easily win due to the psychiatric issues of pit/spinner. At least enough for a psychological evaluation and counseling. I know, because I have pushed those through. Dad could end up with NOTHING but supervised visits.
 
Thanks! I think I got it handled though. It is so sad. And there is enough on here that mom can easily win due to the psychiatric issues of pit/spinner. At least enough for a psychological evaluation and counseling. I know, because I have pushed those through. Dad could end up with NOTHING but supervised visits.

Great! For the sake of that little girl I hope she has enough for supervised only until he gets some real help.
 
moms email

I am not adverse to updating you, nor sending pictures, not letting you speak to B. However, I want to BE VERY CLEAR. The last time I allowed you to speak to Bella on the phone, you called the sheriff's department and had a deputy dispatched because you alleged that B sounded "confused and larthargic". That was ridiculous, frivolous, and unacceptable behavior by you. She was 2 at the time. After you did that, I decided it was not worth the hassle of dealing with you and your unpredictabe and outrageous behavior and putting her through unnessasary police contact.

The court has denied your motion for emergency contact.

You do not control me anymore. You cannot demand things of me anymore. Or order me about. Or throw tantrums to get your way. Or wear me down until I concede. I am done with that abuse. Until you can understand that, you will not see any favors from me. And until you can act, talk, and e-mail like a civil adult, I will not subject B to your sociopathic behavior. I will protect my daughter from your bad influences in her best interest.

That said, I have attached two recent photos, at your request, of Bella at the park. I do not have a digital camera, and to not have unlimited access to my parents, as you may think, so I will not set a schedule for sending photos at this time.

We are going to the Memorial Day parade on Monday and then the brat fry. She does not use a sippy cup. She "traded" it for a bike. She uses a regular cup. She is still potty training and wears underpants with training pants during the day, and sits on the potty regularly. She wears a pull-up at night and is usually dry in the morning. We are working on writing her letters and numbers. She likes watching the Muppet Show lately and reading LOTS of books. We are going to the ballet "Cinderella" in June. We are regulars at the JMKAC (arts center). We attend storytime weekly at the library and pick out lots of books. There are many beautiful parks that we visit and a Splash Pad when it gets warmer. We had a picnic this week at the park and went out for ice cream cones after. I am looking into summer gymnastics or ballet for her. She has shown an interest in both.

If you choose of to use any of this info against me/her in court or in any other respect, I will terminate these updates and pictures immediately. I am doing this at your request. You have not supported Bella with one penny since September, and very little before that. My advice to you is to stop demanding everything of others and work on yourself. Consider supporting her financially before you demand anything else.

the last few lines are BS**************Snagg the kiddo and then demand money....
sounds like you guys......whats wisconsins child support deal 17% of gross or net? funny too that mom didnt work for 18 months but i didnt seem to support the kid....hmmm i wonder how we made it!!!!
lol and finally the threat of denying contact which is an empty threat anyways cause this email was writte over 2 weeks ago. and havent heard squat!!!!:mad:
 

mistoffolees

Senior Member
I am not adverse to updating you, nor sending pictures, not letting you speak to B. However, I want to BE VERY CLEAR. The last time I allowed you to speak to Bella on the phone, you called the sheriff's department and had a deputy dispatched because you alleged that B sounded "confused and larthargic". That was ridiculous, frivolous, and unacceptable behavior by you. She was 2 at the time. After you did that, I decided it was not worth the hassle of dealing with you and your unpredictabe and outrageous behavior and putting her through unnessasary police contact.

The court has denied your motion for emergency contact.

You do not control me anymore. You cannot demand things of me anymore. Or order me about. Or throw tantrums to get your way. Or wear me down until I concede. I am done with that abuse. Until you can understand that, you will not see any favors from me. And until you can act, talk, and e-mail like a civil adult, I will not subject B to your sociopathic behavior. I will protect my daughter from your bad influences in her best interest.

That said, I have attached two recent photos, at your request, of Bella at the park. I do not have a digital camera, and to not have unlimited access to my parents, as you may think, so I will not set a schedule for sending photos at this time.

We are going to the Memorial Day parade on Monday and then the brat fry. She does not use a sippy cup. She "traded" it for a bike. She uses a regular cup. She is still potty training and wears underpants with training pants during the day, and sits on the potty regularly. She wears a pull-up at night and is usually dry in the morning. We are working on writing her letters and numbers. She likes watching the Muppet Show lately and reading LOTS of books. We are going to the ballet "Cinderella" in June. We are regulars at the JMKAC (arts center). We attend storytime weekly at the library and pick out lots of books. There are many beautiful parks that we visit and a Splash Pad when it gets warmer. We had a picnic this week at the park and went out for ice cream cones after. I am looking into summer gymnastics or ballet for her. She has shown an interest in both.

If you choose of to use any of this info against me/her in court or in any other respect, I will terminate these updates and pictures immediately. I am doing this at your request. You have not supported Bella with one penny since September, and very little before that. My advice to you is to stop demanding everything of others and work on yourself. Consider supporting her financially before you demand anything else.

the last few lines are BS**************Snagg the kiddo and then demand money....
sounds like you guys......whats wisconsins child support deal 17% of gross or net? funny too that mom didnt work for 18 months but i didnt seem to support the kid....hmmm i wonder how we made it!!!!
lol and finally the threat of denying contact which is an empty threat anyways cause this email was writte over 2 weeks ago. and havent heard squat!!!!:mad:

Mom sounds very reasonable. She's not denying your time with the child, but you called the police last time because the child was 'lethargic'? O.M.G.

Please, do everyone involved a favor and see a mental health professional. First thing tomorrow. And don't stop until you can learn to behave like a human being rather than a dog protecting his bone.
 

CJane

Senior Member
Mom sounds very reasonable. She's not denying your time with the child, but you called the police last time because the child was 'lethargic'? O.M.G.

Please, do everyone involved a favor and see a mental health professional. First thing tomorrow. And don't stop until you can learn to behave like a human being rather than a dog protecting his bone.

Um, if my dog acted like this when "protecting" his food, he'd quickly find himself in an intensive retraining program.

Just saying.
 
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