overnights with boyfriend

[Zephyr]

I'd file a restraining order so fast that his head would spin


probably after bf kicked his butt after chasing him down

 

[CJane]

I'd file a restraining order so fast that his head would spin


probably after bf kicked his butt after chasing him down

Yanno, I'd almost pay money to watch the entire SWAT team/Narc squad take off after the ex. He'd soil himself. LOL

 

[lquid_user]

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It helps to have these ideas in print. I understand that my opinion and the law are not always congruent. I am taking my time with this for that reason.

I think I am obviously the better parent. The issues I address in these posts are some of the reasons. It is not just that SHE isn't as good. Its just that I am confident in MY parenting abilities and have no qestions regarding them, legal or otherwise. I go out of my way to shield the kids from harm of any sort whenever I have the opportunity. I provide good food, clean comfortable shelter, and I encourage them and teach them. I also try to demonstrate to them the difference between right and wrong and what is effective and what is not.

I have never been in a situation like this before and do not know how to manage this. I am glad I have access to this forum to help prevent some of the worse mistakes I could make. There is a learning curve. I've never had to share anything so important as my children. Given the oportunity I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would stand over my kids shoulders all the time. That is just not possible.

So must content myself with trying to educate myself to make informed decisions in their best interests. I think that although rarely legal in nature the advice found on this forum is usually sound on some level. and worth consideration. Luckily the unsound advice apears pretty obvious, as do the misdirected comments. sometimes you can even get nudged into a better viewpoint, something that is hard to maintain during the stress and drama associated with this type of legal proceeding.

thanks everyone for the free advice, and opinions. I think we are all on the forums because we need to balance our views or settle our minds. and it is very helpful to have info from people who have really already been there.

lquid

 

[shell007]

Key word there was "IF" you were a mom, which now it's safe to assume your not. Therefore when it comes to worrying about your children, you haven't got a clue! All that Law School knowledge you claim to have doesn't get you anywhere. Books don't teach someone how to worry about children.

Make sure those kids are OK.

And another thing...since you claim to be so high and mighty & smart........why are you giving out so much information about your personal background on the internet just so that you can have the last word? not to smart!

Like I said...you have no idea who I am, what I do, or who I'm about.

 

[Zephyr]

Key word there was "IF" you were a mom, which now it's safe to assume your not. Therefore when it comes to worrying about your children, you haven't got a clue! All that Law School knowledge you claim to have doesn't get you anywhere. Books don't teach someone how to worry about children.

so is it your position that dad's don't have a clue how to care for their children???

 

[Zephyr]

Key word there was "IF" you were a mom, which now it's safe to assume your not. Therefore when it comes to worrying about your children, you haven't got a clue! All that Law School knowledge you claim to have doesn't get you anywhere. Books don't teach someone how to worry about children.

Make sure those kids are OK.

And another thing...since you claim to be so high and mighty & smart........why are you giving out so much information about your personal background on the internet just so that you can have the last word? not to smart!

Like I said...you have no idea who I am, what I do, or who I'm about.

ummm...not too smart

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Like I said...you have no idea who I am, what I do, or who I'm about.

And that is irrelevant. You are known by your words and inability to put forth a valid legal argument in support of your 'opinion'.

 

[CJane]

And that is irrelevant. You are known by your words and inability to put forth a valid legal argument in support of your 'opinion'.

You mean you're not skeered?

 

[stealth2]

so is it your position that dad's don't have a clue how to care for their children???

Isn't that the general thought pattern for a lot of these women?

 

[shell007]

wannacry:

I was responding directly to Belizebreeeze's statement where she said "if I was a mom". It wasn't a general statement pertaining to the general population. Where do you people come from?

If I didn't think Dad's could be good parents, I wouldn't have spent so much time on liquiduser.


Bottom line is: liquiduser seems genuinely concerned about the safety of his children. You people are all caught up the the pettiness that continues to go on in these forums. I hope for his children to safe and sound.

Best of luck liquiduser

 

[Zephyr]

wannacry:

I was responding directly to Belizebreeeze's statement where she said "if I was a mom". It wasn't a general statement pertaining to the general population. Where do you people come from?

If I didn't think Dad's could be good parents, I wouldn't have spent so much time on liquiduser.


Bottom line is: liquiduser seems genuinely concerned about the safety of his children. You people are all caught up the the pettiness that continues to go on in these forums. I hope for his children to safe and sound.

Best of luck liquiduser

belize is a he, a dad I believe, that is why I was asking

 

[BelizeBreeze]

And Jane made the comment "If I were a mom..."
That's two strikes.

 

[stealth2]

Key word there was "IF" you were a mom, which now it's safe to assume your not.

Which you have not only attributed to the wrong poster:

If I was mom and dad was spying on me/my BF/the kids - I'd file a restraining order so fast that his head would spin.

But you quoted wrong AND out of context. Do try to brush up on your comprehension skills, shell dear.

 

[stealth2]

you peolple know waaaay to much about each other's personal lives.

It's called being perceptive and also intelligent enough to remember what people have posted.

Is this a web page for singles looking to hook up?

Why - are you looking?

 

[shell007]

Hey stealth2: How about you brush up on your spelling skills. It's comprehension not complrehension.

No need to go back and edit.....we've already seen it