why would they give him custody

[shuga24]

What is the name of your state? I live in Nevada. The father of my 6 year old little girl wants joint physical custody. He has never done anything for her but buy clothes. He lives with his mother. He has lived with his mother since I've known him. When my child goes over to his house she sleeps in his bed with him. Will they give him joint physical custody. I moved a lot of times since i had her Does that count against me. He is almost 31 and I am 24 years old. I quit my job . Daughter might have dyslexia. She needs constent attention

 

[HomeGuru]

What is the name of your state? I live in Nevada. The father of my 6 year old little girl wants joint physical custody. He has never done anything for her but buy clothes. He lives with his mother. He has lived with his mother since I've known him. When my child goes over to his house she sleeps in his bed with him. Will they give him joint physical custody

**A: how the heck should we know.

 

[shuga24]

I just wanted your opinion on the matter.

 

[HomeGuru]

Ok, then my opinion is yes.

 

[shuga24]

please do not reply to my message again and i will not reply to your rude comments thanks

 

[HomeGuru]

What is the name of your state? I live in Nevada. The father of my 6 year old little girl wants joint physical custody. He has never done anything for her but buy clothes. He lives with his mother. He has lived with his mother since I've known him. When my child goes over to his house she sleeps in his bed with him. Will they give him joint physical custody. I moved a lot of times since i had her Does that count against me. He is almost 31 and I am 24 years old. I quit my job . Daughter might have dyslexia. She needs constent attention

**A: you must be like a 24 year old and a housewife who never got a college degree. You have not provided enough information for anyone to provide you with any sort of substantial opinion. And the word is spelled constant.

 

[shuga24]

How funny is that. I f you cant read get off line I quit my job my daughter needs special attention. I don't need a degree i'm only 24. just a medical assistant though. My daughters carreer means more to me than anything. You people are playing on this site. Real people need help with custody battles. Find another site to bring you back to your childhood

 

[FJ1200guy]

I'd like to ask a couple questions to help us give you better info, k? You say the child is 6, is there a custody order now?
And what type of visitation does he enjoy now, and how long has it been that way?

Chances of him getting joint physical now after so long (depending on custody, visitation, and other things) is pretty slim, especially since he is in another state. More info is needed though, if you could. Don't you think he is a good dad, by the way?
Oh and I guess I'm not too familiar with dyslexia, why does she need constant attention?

 

[nextwife]

Ok. I am on multiple weblists for parents of post-institutionalized adoptive children, many of which have a smorgesborg of SNs. Mine is ADD, ODD, hyper-vigilant, was severly language delayed, has visual and auditory deficits and is also 6 years old. Why does a child having dyslexia require your "constant attention" and quiting your job?

Just curious as many of the kids who were institutionalized have SID, dyslexia, RAD and other issues and still attend a regular classroom and participate in sports, lessons and all the other things kids do at age 6. Mine takes piano, tap and basketball, and is in a regular first grade class.

Dyslexia alone should not require such a degree of coddling.

 

[WyattJ]

If he is to get Joint Custody you can have this stipulation in there to help get over your fear of your daughter sleeping in the same bed plus getting the care she deserves.



During those time periods that each parent has the child physically with him or her, he or she will provide the child with the following: (a) regular and nutritious meals; (b) clean and appropriate clothing; (c) sanitary and reasonably private living and sleeping quarters; and (d) appropriate medical and dental treatment.

 

[shuga24]

He is a circus dad. He doesn't discipline her at all. she talks back to him. I have to tell her all the time to respect him. I don't dislike what he can do for her but, he wants to have custody. I take care of her schooling, transportation, personal hygene, baby sitting when i have to go to work, I teach her to clean after herself. I do it all. He only bought clothes. I told him to go buy his self an outfit but stop taking a bath dont, brush your teeth dont comb your hair dont respect your self or others just buy some clothes and see how you feel. Dyslexia is a learning disorder. It causes you to see things backwords. words, numbers, it makes it very hard on a child in school and every day life.

 

[stealth2]

Yeah, I think we all know what dyslexia is. Most of us probably know at least one person who is dyslexic. I know several - both kids and adults. I've never heard of one needing constant supervision unless there were other problems present.

 

[shuga24]

All children are different. My child might have a more serious problem. Her brain wonders. Her teachers are unable to understand my child. My child is threatening to get held back. If I have to quit my job to keep track of my childs schooling I will do just that. I go into her class and help her teacher understand her. The teacher has too many kids to just pay attention to one.

 

[stealth2]

Her brain wonders.

Most brains do. (sorry - couldn't resist) I would urge you to get additional testing for your daughter as it sounds like there is much more going on than just dyslexia.

Whether Dad will get joint custody or not will depend a lot on what he presents in court vs what you do.

 

[nextwife]

What does the IEP team offer to deal with redirecting your child as needed? Sounds like there may be an ADD component.