will I get retroactive child support?

[stealth2]

Sorry.... maybe white trash is a better descriptor.

 

[nextwife]

I started not to respond because you sound a little wacky. Children from China, a biobaby. Is this a joke. "What does this have to do with the price of tea in China?" is just an expression. And having two kids a year apart is no big deal. However SUPERMOM was the one referring to keeping my legs closed when she couldn't or didn't!

It's called a "segway" dearie. That means: a device used to transition from a prior to a latter statement.

I was getting annoyed with the "I'm the parent with the uterus, therefore my decisions are superior" attitude. Seems you wish him to be financially the parent from birth, but want him to wait forever to actually get to PARENT his child. A person, male or female, is neither inferior nor superior as a parent just because they can carry a baby and the other parent can't.

 

[stealth2]

It's called a "segway" dearie. That means: a device used to transition from a prior to a latter statement.

Ugh - I hate to do this.... A "segway" is that goofy scooter thing. You mean a "segue".

 

[nextwife]

Ugh - I hate to do this.... A "segway" is that goofy scooter thing. You mean a "segue".

Thanks Stealthie!

 

[too sad in az]

Sorry.... maybe white trash is a better descriptor.

I didn't post a picture. How do you know what I look like? Interesting? I'm not saying that I'm not white I just found it odd that you chose the words white trash. Oh I get it. You were calling him white trash. I prefer Liar & Cheat. He's not trashy!

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Ugh - I hate to do this.... A "segway" is that goofy scooter thing. You mean a "segue".

No you don't YOU VIXEN YOU

 

[stealth2]

I didn't post a picture. How do you know what I look like? Interesting? I'm not saying that I'm not white I just found it odd that you chose the words white trash. Oh I get it. You were calling him white trash. I prefer Liar & Cheat. He's not trashy!

I'd get called on using the other descriptor.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

White trash, Black Trash, Whore, Skank, the "N" word (interchangable for any race), slut, easy, piece of meat...hell, call a spade a spade.

But there is one interesting fact that as of yet, all you ladies have not commented on. I wonder if you've even noticed????

 

[momov3grlz69]

"Too Sad" is definately the way to describe yourself. Why would I have kept my legs closed??...I (unlike you) was actually married...TO the man who is the father of MY children"...and AM married to the father of my third child. Some of us HAVE control and morals!!! And I make reference to NY because I live there....and wouldn't want a trouble maker like you as a neighbor. Keep the AZ judges busy with your nonsense. Better yet...sounds to me like you're all about the $$$$$...why not try prostitution...they say those girls can make some good $$$$ and you don't have to ruin a child's life in the meantime!!!!

 

[stepmom65]

I guess you don't get it. I know what rights he has regarding visitation. I'm asking what rights do I have regarding protecting my son from a woman who is very violent. I'm not looking for pitty. You mentioned "WE" in your reply. Are you more than one person, more than one personality? I don't think you can speak for everyone. And you probably have never had anyone lie to you before either. Obvious you're not educated enough to know the entire law. Because if that was the case children wouldn't be removed when parents used drugs, were physical (it's called domestic violence). You got it! I'm not satisfied with your answer, unwilling to accept it and don't believe you! I can deal with being connected, attached, to my son's father for 17 more years. No big deal. I'm talking about what to do regarding his wife's irrational behavior!

Honey, Do you have proof of her violance, other than what you've seen..Any documentation, police reports...without any hard proof, you can not stop your husband from overnights or visits at his home.... So if she is indeed violant in anyway, document it, get witnesses to see the violence first hand with you somehow...

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Honey, Do you have proof of her violance, other than what you've seen..Any documentation, police reports...without any hard proof, you can not stop your husband from overnights or visits at his home.... So if she is indeed violant in anyway, document it, get witnesses to see the violence first hand with you somehow...

HEY!!! GREAT IDEA. I concur. The next time this violent, violent, violent woman starts to put her fist through the wall, put your face in the way.

walls need protection too!!!

 

[Rushia]

I never said I didn't want him to know his father. GEEZZZ! Goodie for you that you get along with everyone. But I don't get along with people that say my son should have been aborted when her husband was the one lying to me and saying he was divorced from her. Hey if she wants him, she can have him. It wasn't a matter of him choosing his wife over me. He still wants to be with me but I don't want any part of him. Call me what you want. But I'm no BIMBO. You can only be a BIMBO if you play the part. This man & I went on trips visited his friends and family and no one said a word. SO HE IS JUST A LIAR & CHEAT!

I don't believe that I actually ever called you a Bimbo, you feelin' a little guilty sweetheart? Once again, her reactions were understandable. Were you not a little PO'd yourself to find he was still married? You can convince yourself that he still wants you if that makes you feel better, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that you've been told by several people here that until you can prove she is a danger to your son you are SOL. You are trying to control when he can be a father to HIS child. Morally, ethically and legally you are WRONG.

 

[Rushia]

HEY!!! GREAT IDEA. I concur. The next time this violent, violent, violent woman starts to put her fist through the wall, put your face in the way.

walls need protection too!!!

Careful, It may knock some sense into her.

 

[too sad in az]

I don't believe that I actually ever called you a Bimbo, you feelin' a little guilty sweetheart? Once again, her reactions were understandable. Were you not a little PO'd yourself to find he was still married? You can convince yourself that he still wants you if that makes you feel better, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that you've been told by several people here that until you can prove she is a danger to your son you are SOL. You are trying to control when he can be a father to HIS child. Morally, ethically and legally you are WRONG.

No guilt here. The BIMBO reference was directed to someone else. The police were called and yes I do have evidence! Yes I was PO'd but I didn't smash in walls go to his home where he has a child and raise hell in front of the little girl like her parents have done.

 

[Rushia]

No guilt here. The BIMBO reference was directed to someone else. The police were called and yes I do have evidence! Yes I was PO'd but I didn't smash in walls go to his home where he has a child and raise hell in front of the little girl like her parents have done.

Once again: Did she do it to your son?