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What is the name of your state? Oklahoma Please tell me if I am in the wrong place. I have a question regarding California laws regarding medical bills. In Oklahoma, as long as you are making payments montly and the hospital is cashing them (which means they are accepting your payments) they...

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma My ex ( I am custodial parent) lives about 15-20 minutes away from us. He tells the kids that since I am custodial parent - I have to provide transportation to school events when they fall on his weekend??? I have had never heard this before and it is...

Thanks for the input. Anybody else, keep them coming. We did sit down last night and talked about the fact that he was a child and that the adults made these decisions and for him not to worry. The anger and tears come from the fact that he is frustrated and not wanting to hurt anyone's...

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma I am custodial parent of 3 children, 2 girls and one boy (11). I need some suggestions on how to help my son. His father is putting alot of pressure and guilt on my son. He tells him if you come live with me then....... if you lived with me your mom could...

Okla I am very sorry. I really wasn't trying to do anything to purposely take time away. That was not my motive. We had plans and when I picked him up from school he announced that he wanted to do this in 10 minutes. I appreciate your advice (minus the bullets LOL) as I am very supportive all in...

What is the name of your state? oklahoma Help! My son when he goes to visit (age 10) is poured on with mega guilt, and this come live with me if you love me. My son asked to go hunting with his father and his behavior had been horrible last night. I said no, which caused "thats why I neecd to...

Oklahoma My ex used to tell the children to bring their own shampos and pillows. We never did comply, that was plum wacko.

Oklahoma I am not sure how substainable she will be ans an adult. I am trying to get social security disability for her. That's fun enough LOL Where or how can I find out if there is any state laws about child support and special education students? Any ideas?

What is the name of your state?Oklahoma I have three children. My oldest is in special education and will be 19 when she graduates. My order states he will pay child support until age 18 or until she graduates. His child support is garnished due to prior problems. Is it his job, prior to or...

iaal Thanks. I just didn't know, considering he is still paying child support , if she or me could get into trouble. I have always encouraged a relationship with my children and their father. So there is nothing he can do to me or her?

What is the name of your state? Oklahoma I have a daughter that turned 18 in Feburary. She is in the 11th grade. She will be 19 when she graduated and child support ends. Since she has turned 18 she has decided on a couple of occasions not to go for visits. Should I make her? Help!

school I live in Oklahoma and am a psychologist with the public school system here. The school would have never tested this child unless they received a referral from the teacher. Then if the tester/assesser acertained she needed something and they tell you that she needed outside help then (in...

Thanks dakota, I agree, I guess that was my original point. Like I've said before I am a psychologist. I hate the effect on the kids. Mine is letting them participate but guilts them to death and then the only way they can get to these events is if I pick them up 25 minutes away and drive...

Eellencee~ I guess the moral of the story is don't let your child have a normal junior high/high school experience and don't let them join the enroll in band, go out for sports, heaven forbit be prom king or queen because it might infring on "your time" and just see the crop that you reap. I...

Yes he agreed. Whenever the kids want to do something that even would remotely effect him and his time with them I have them talk to him. I can't do that becasue like I said his issue is the angry one with issues with me. Everything is an issue with me. So he and them worked it out. He doesn't...