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Went to the visitation and...
NO SHOW.
Yup, that's right. Butter did not show up. Don't know what her reason was this time, we were there at 5:45pm. The lady at the visitation place called her moms and left a message, than she called her dad's house and was able to talk to Butter's step...
For ButterFree...
quote from littlestlulu:
"All I can hope that for my daughter is that some day he will mature and be a good dad."
quote from butterfree:
That is what we ALL really hope for, for our kids' sake."
REALLY BUTTER? WHAT ABOUT THE MOTHER MATURING TOO...FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN...
QUOTED BY LITTESTLULU:
if anyone should be more cautious of their wording it should be you. I don't know your deal but you are obviously a hot headed bitter person.
I'M NOT A BITTER PERSON. REALLY I'M NOT. I RELIZE THAT SOMETIMES MY WORDS ARE HARSH OR HEATED, BUT THAT'S ONLY WHEN IT SEEMS THAT...
RyRy, I sowwrrryyy. I don't look at ALL Cps like this. Hell, I'm a CP everyother year. I just get SO angry at the CP's out there who are PBFH's...you truely have a deadbeat looser for a father of your child...(I wish cs was only $17.50 for rad...)
I apoligize to you, ryry and to all other...
Here's something I went through:
My dd cut her finger open and needed stitches...me and dh rushed her to the hospital. She is on her dads ins. I gave the hospital dads ins. info., but they needed my address for the billing. They said that after the ins. clears, I will be billed the remainder...
No, I'm not comparing your "story' to some personal situation...I trust my ex's judgement when it comes to his children. No, I'm not clueless...you didn't mention that you were pregnant...I would've never suggested getting on a plane...I wouldn've suggested that you drive. I understand that...
Speaking from experience...all your daughter wants right now is your love, understanding, and support. I got pregnant with my first daughter at 16 (she is now 10 years old). My mother was VERY shocked, even asked if I wanted to abort the baby...When I told her no, that I will keep my child and...
Speaking from experience...all your daughter wants right now is your love, understanding, and support. I got pregnant with my first daughter at 16 (she is now 10 years old). My mother was VERY shocked, even asked if I wanted to abort the baby...When I told her no, that I will keep my child and...
Thank you for clarifying the split custody arrangment. See in your first post you didn't mention that.
Most likely the reason that Ohio would have jurisdiction is because the child has lived there for at least 6 continuous months...(is that correct). It's the status quo.
I do believe that...
Thanks RyRy!! I'd still like to know where I can get some with only $122 in assets...I can come up with $122 if someone will give me $40,000 worth of gold!!!! :D Hell, I'll come up with $61 and you come up with $61, than we'll split the $40,000, K ryry? lol
Ladies and Gentlemen......May I have your attention????
This is the very reason why fathers hide their income!!! Cuz if they don't BAAMMM! "can I put a lien on his business" Give me a break...OMG!! don't let the father try to move on...especially if "he owes me money"...:rolleyes:
So, you moved away? Child is living with father? There is no custody arrangment with the courts? Sounds to me like you better get an attorney. One that is in Ohio...cuz that is where jurisdiction is. He does have the upper hand cuz the child has lived with him for 3 years...it's called the...
*bows head and blushes...shuffles feet* aww shuchs...I'm not that special...you must not have read my post "Separating siblings" I don't know what to do. But thanks for the compliment. It makes me feel like all the heartache and butt busting were worth it.
It's really quite simple...as long as it does not interfere with his time...you don't have to ask "permission" Just make sure the activities you put them in doesn't happen during his time...if it does, than he has every right to gripe about it. You would if the tables were turned. If you want...
This is what gets to me...
"Do I have to worry about him getting involved in the decision making or do I as the custodial parent have the right to make decisions when it comes to things like that?"
What, did you have these children out of immaculate conception? Was the father not involved in...
LOL, me too, I'm sick of the rain!!! I don't know though. I've lived in CA, SC, AZ, GA, and OR and the job market sucks EVERYWHERE. I don't think moving to a different state solves the financial problems...Least it hasn't been the case for me.
My ex and I have shared custody, both legal and physical. The way we have it is the girls live with me from July to July one year and with him the next...It's worked for the last 5 years. The problem now is that the girls, well my oldest, is getting to where she doesn't want to change schools...
Alright, Alright...*bows head down* Sunfan, your right...I guess I should have given her a little better "advice", instead I focussed on the other posters. I apoligize to the poster.
I did this for 4 months. I lived in AZ while my children lived in Oregon. I paid to fly down to see them...
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