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~There are very few professionals here. Mostly people that have climbed the same hills in the same shoes. Now, legally... your g/f has just as many rights as that father if not more. If she wants the child, then go get him/her. In the meantime she needs to file for custody right away, if...
~I'm done here.... not worth the time or energy. Your original post suggested adoption and custody. Then you get all crazed and start talking about drugs. Is this to make it sound more interesting? You're hopeless .... bye-bye, I have packing to do:)
~Thanks. I think I can ... I think I can ... I think I can. LOL:) His first time flying and he is not so happy. Just to think 20 hours from now we will be soaking up the sun 1000's of miles away:)
P.S. Even though I will truely miss all of you, big daddy says "Free Advice.com" has to stay...
~Your child is an adult... obviously she sees this man fit. If and when she does not it will be her job to take care of it. Sit down relax and let your daughter be an adult and a mother:)
~Judges see this kind of thing all the time and see thru these kind of people. Just relax and everything will work out in the end. P.S. I wouldn't offer to reduce it... I'd take it all(leaves him less $$ to fight for custody). Plus, ask the judge how he will support this child when he can't...
~My advice to you... leave it as it is. Go on with your life, one day when you marry, your husband can adopt your child. The bio. father can then give up his rights, or you can terminate them if he has had no contact. Until then all it will be is an uphill battle that will get you nowhere in...
~She can't do that... she knows where this man is and the court knows that she knows. Also, we don't know if there is a 3rd party willing to adopt. With that she has nothing. The fact that you had an escort service may hurt you, but I doubt it seeing how he has a felony and you have proof...
I'm goin' to the chapel, and I'm gonna get married....I'm goin' to the chapel of love! :) Man, I'm nervous...less than 48 hours:) :) :) Sorry, just had to add all of that!
~Lady, you better run and hide I can see it coming:) First of all you can't terminte his rights w/out a stepfather to assume them. Also, you must have his permission. That sums it up in a nut shell. Has he had any other contact with the child? Support?? Also, no guarantees that your family...
~There may be a transitional period where he comes to your home a few times, takes her a few hours, and slowly work up to overnights. However please realize that he will eventually get overnights. It is much easier to accept that now vs. fighting it and losing in the end. It's just life, and...
~I do feel for you, and most of all I feel for this innocent child:( however, I do have a question. If your financial situation is how you state... can you please tell me how you will provide for this child?
~What's the difference? If they get married the child(ren) can become attached and then they could get divorced. Hello, it is 2005. My fiance' and I have lived together unmarried for 2 years (getting married in Jamacia in 3 days; leave tomorrow). I highly doubt the courts will take away...
~You should ask the court for whatever you are wanting. It would not be asking for too much to petition for: every other weekend over nights, every other holiday, every other birthday, every father's day, and a couple weeks in the summer. Good Luck:)
~One reply is sufficient! Time to be blunt I suppose. You created a child with this man and now you will have to deal with that for the next 18 years. I'm hoping that you are mature enough to know what makes a baby, you did it...ADAPT NOW, for the benefit of yourself and your child! Him...
~Lady, I have to ask: what was the judges reason for ruling that the best interest of the children would be to reside with their father?? Why are you dealing with this? Why don't you hire an attorney and fight this crazed man? You do have rights you know:)
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