CJane
Senior Member
And I am correct...you wanted nothing to do with your daughter until you had a wife and a new family.
Actually, no. He said in his very first post that he cut off contact with child #1 because he was too busy with his wife and pending second child to pay attention to his first child. He abandoned his child because of his wife and new family.
I'm betting the only reason he suddenly wants contact is because clearly Mom and the child went on with their lives without him. And that's just not acceptable. They were supposed to wait in some sort of suspended animation until he was ready to pick up where he left off.