will I get retroactive child support?

[Rushia]

You may have given birth but that does not consititue you as being a good mom. No one in their right mind! would have a newborn or 1 yr old go back & forth from one home to another. The courts look at the stability of the child without disruption. In the court guidelines in AZ, if a parent has not been involved in the day to day duties (which his daddy hasn't, not to my doing) then the child is to remain in his home until he develops a bond with the other parent and then overnights will begin. I've found a great deal of info and not from posters like you.

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You better hold it right there young lady. I happen to be a good mom AND I sent my 1 yr old little girl over to her dads for an overnight. At that time there was no bond between them as he left when she was 4 months old. We split up because we couldn't work things out and that was not our childrens fault. I made sure there was a bond created between the two of them. In the end what my children will remember is that their parents loved them and that their mom NEVER stopped their father from seeing them. The law is only there for people like you who look for ways to stop the other parent from being there.

 

[too sad in az]

Speaking of China, I know some families with both a child from China and a biobaby that are less than a year apart. So what if someone has two kids a year apart?

And dads ARE just as important as moms to children. They need both, and not just tiny little mom-dominated doses of Daddy time.

I started not to respond because you sound a little wacky. Children from China, a biobaby. Is this a joke. "What does this have to do with the price of tea in China?" is just an expression. And having two kids a year apart is no big deal. However SUPERMOM was the one referring to keeping my legs closed when she couldn't or didn't!

 

[too sad in az]

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You better hold it right there young lady. I happen to be a good mom AND I sent my 1 yr old little girl over to her dads for an overnight. At that time there was no bond between them as he left when she was 4 months old. We split up because we couldn't work things out and that was not our childrens fault. I made sure there was a bond created between the two of them. In the end what my children will remember is that their parents loved them and that their mom NEVER stopped their father from seeing them. The law is only there for people like you who look for ways to stop the other parent from being there.

Okay. Sounds like you're a little up tight! The reason why I have not allowed my son to go to his father's house (not see his father or be with him) is because his wife is violent! violent! violent! So because I'm a excellent mom looking out for the well being of my child I thought it would be best for him to visit outside of his violent! home.

 

[StepmomsAreBest]

Shut up and let your kid see his daddy. Good grief! I don't understand some of you women and your need to keep your children from their father! GROW UP!

 

[stealth2]

Okay. Sounds like you're a little up tight! The reason why I have not allowed my son to go to his father's house (not see his father or be with him) is because his wife is violent! violent! violent! So because I'm a excellent mom looking out for the well being of my child I thought it would be best for him to visit outside of his violent! home.

And his wife may well be "violent! violent! violent!" because her husband was screwing a bimbo.

 

[too sad in az]

Shut up and let your kid see his daddy. Good grief! I don't understand some of you women and your need to keep your children from their father! GROW UP!

You grow up. You sound like a stepmom that likes to YELL alot! Shut up. Now that's not nice! Another violent stepmom. Just like I thought I'm doing the right thing. Violent! violent! violent!

 

[StepmomsAreBest]

Okay. Sounds like you're a little up tight! The reason why I have not allowed my son to go to his father's house (not see his father or be with him) is because his wife is violent! violent! violent! So because I'm a excellent mom looking out for the well being of my child I thought it would be best for him to visit outside of his violent! home.

Oh goody!! Another bitter first wife!

 

[Rushia]

Okay. Sounds like you're a little up tight! The reason why I have not allowed my son to go to his father's house (not see his father or be with him) is because his wife is violent! violent! violent! So because I'm a excellent mom looking out for the well being of my child I thought it would be best for him to visit outside of his violent! home.

I have no reason to be uptight, I remarried, have a great hubby, get along with my X and his fiance, I adore their new little baby and my two great kids. Sorry, but I don't agree that she is violent, she found out about you and was understandably PO'd. She has shown no violence towards your son and until you can prove she did, you are SOL. That child has a right to know his father, and just because you're upset that he chose his wife over you doesn't give you the right to take his child away from him.

 

[StepmomsAreBest]

You grow up. You sound like a stepmom that likes to YELL alot! Shut up. Now that's not nice! Another violent stepmom. Just like I thought I'm doing the right thing. Violent! violent! violent!

Ouch.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Oh goody!! Another bitter first wife!

She never was married to the guy. HE was married to someone else when she spread her legs.

Does that tell you something?

 

[Rushia]

Oh goody!! Another bitter first wife!

Nah, she isn't the first wife. He cheated on his wife with her. If you mean me then, Nah, I happen to like his new one!

 

[too sad in az]

She never was married to the guy. HE was married to someone else when she spread her legs.

Does that tell you something?

Yes it does! That men are liars and cheats.

 

[StepmomsAreBest]

She never was married to the guy. HE was married to someone else when she spread her legs.

Does that tell you something?

Oh, so she's a homewrecking whore

 

[StepmomsAreBest]

Yes it does! That men are liars and cheats.

Oh, and I suppose you didn't "know" he was married.....

 

[too sad in az]

I have no reason to be uptight, I remarried, have a great hubby, get along with my X and his fiance, I adore their new little baby and my two great kids. Sorry, but I don't agree that she is violent, she found out about you and was understandably PO'd. She has shown no violence towards your son and until you can prove she did, you are SOL. That child has a right to know his father, and just because you're upset that he chose his wife over you doesn't give you the right to take his child away from him.

I never said I didn't want him to know his father. GEEZZZ! Goodie for you that you get along with everyone. But I don't get along with people that say my son should have been aborted when her husband was the one lying to me and saying he was divorced from her. Hey if she wants him, she can have him. It wasn't a matter of him choosing his wife over me. He still wants to be with me but I don't want any part of him. Call me what you want. But I'm no BIMBO. You can only be a BIMBO if you play the part. This man & I went on trips visited his friends and family and no one said a word. SO HE IS JUST A LIAR & CHEAT!