Recent content by msfurman

rmet----- AGAIN LEARN TO READ HONEY. I do continue to say to check the laws in your state. What kind of rant are you on? Instead of giving people advise, you show everyone that your on a male period. Additionally, this does sound like kidnapping as rmet said. You should see if the authorities...

If child support is dismissed and he never has to pay again, he is still responsible for arrearages. Nextwife is correct. He cant just stop his support obligations. If step dad adopts the child, the bio parents parental right can be relinquished so that the adoption can occur. But arrearages...

Yes, a significant change, not just becasue she wants to. So, what do you think she woudl say about you or your lifestyle or how you care for her? Secondl, she doesnt need an attny to get into court. She may want one, but she doesnt need one. And to answer your question, it take a few months...

But your cousins situation is differnet becasue you said they gave them up. I was talking about a situation where there is a custody fight and one is not the biological parent. They just dont do that. NOW, if this lady gave up her children to this man, and he isnot the biological father...

Whoa. Im not sure what you do in that situation with a legal adult whom you still have to pay support for becuase she is still in High School. Child support is suppose ot be used by the custodial parent to help pay the bills in a nutshell. So that child isnt living on the street and all that...

Oh, I completly understand. My complaint is not for personal reasons or for her friend. She has plenty of time with me and in her life here to visit with friends and do the girlly things. MY ONLY ISSUE is when there is something with school that is mandatory that counts against her grade. This...

The child still has the right to know who his real father is. Wether mom tells the child now or later. It still needs to be known. Wether she trys to get custody after taking a paternity test or not, it still needs to be known. Maybe right now is not the best time to tell the child. I'm not a...

WHATEVER. I was not givingher Va law to go by. I was showing her as an example of what she may have to do. All states have a waiting period. EVERY LAST ONE. She obviously did not know that, so I was informing her of it. I told her, if you would use your eyes, that she needs to check the laws in...

If you want to see your child, then yes pursue it. If you dont want to, then dont. But keep in mind, in Va, an adoption....after 6 months, no one can come in and contest it. Its final after 6 months. SO check the laws in your state. But ist up to you .We cant tell you to follow through with it...

Yes, that's not legal notice. Yoru Court orders should say how to give proper legal notice. If for some reason, you are not able to reach mom, you should have at least written the court and gave them legal notice. Here, we have to give written notice by US MAIL tot he court and the other party...

Request an Emergency Hearing in the Court to obtain a court order so you can take your child. Emergency Hearing usually take place within 10 days.

Yes he can keep the child from moving. What you need to do is give the court and the father legal notice of the move. Every state is different as to the amount of time given befoer the move. Va is 30 days prior written notice to the court and other party of the move, address, phonenumber etc...

I did not neglec to say that we live in seperate states: Now, she is in need of medical attention and since I live out of state, I need to set up new providers for her. Ambr OP also mentions that are in two different states. So dads time is pretty much limited to his weekend visitations...

I'm sorry, I dont understand what your saying. Are you possibly confused becuase I have 2 children from 2 different men? My daughter from my exhusband and my son from exboyfriend? And what's wrong with me getting married Tuesday? I don't get it.

Talk to an attny but I have been told that biological parents take presidence over non-biological. My situation is different than yours and my child is 4. But someone else has recently found to be the biological father. We are waiting for court, but from what I ve been told so far is.........if...