Recent content by glowgirl

What is the name of your state? Here is my question, bear with me as I am not up to date with the legal terms and I am not even sure if I am posting this in the right place. I realize that this will be vauge, but an overall response is what I am looking for. My boyfriend before I met him had...

Please don't quote me as I am in Canada and my opinion may be different than others on this forum. I think however from reading along that if new hubby wants to adopt after getting married I think the bio-dad has to sign away his rights in order for that to usually happen. In regards to...

"This schedule and condition limits my time with my boyfriend and I'm worried that when I eventually give birth I will be stuck taking care of the baby. Is it possible that my boyfriend cut his Sunday visitations and instead just do his tuesday visits so he has time to take care of our...

Because if the state goes after him for child support then he will go after her for custody and/or visitation....and she doesn't want that. I was just wondering how old you baby was. Or is it you that doesn't want him to come for custody/visitation?

I appologize, I misunderstood and thought that the OP was saying that he basically was waiting for the adoption to happen so he would stop paying support and stop seeing the children but if the adoption wasn't going to happen he was still happy to pay support and see the children. My comment...

I would first tell him that if he is sincere in wanting to see his child than he needs to prove to you that he can be consistant in the visits and continue the supervised schedule until you see an improvement. If you feel he has changed his ways so to speak than perhaps the two of you can still...

I would have to agree to the last comment made. I don't understand why you want to see the children if there is no adoption happening but don't if there is as so not to confuse things. It just doesn't seem to make sense. Is this a retailiation thing becuase you are still paying to see the...

I am not to sure what to say to this post. Of course there are so many factors that go into these type of scenarios that it is almost impossible to make suggestions. I will say that you come across very upset, as of course you would be, but you need to grab hold of those emotions and breathe...

I'd have to agree with tigger also. At this point in time you are still in the process of removing visitation. However, there are still alternatives before no visitation, such as supervised. Just try not to overwhelm yourself with what your hopes are and make sure that you keep your feet on...

Not to assume to much I will ask if you are close with your father or not? I have a father whom I have not seen for ever almost and I always thought that to get even I could ge him to pay back child support to pay for my education as well, kind of a get even thing on my part. Even recently...

I would also have to agree. I believe some individuals here jumped the gun while jumping on the poster. I think the best advice was already given, talk to the fatehr and if that doesn't work speak with a lawyer to see about any possible modifications. It was mentioned that you wouldn't let a...

I would have to agree with Stealth2. If your child is unhappy or upset enought to not want to be there. The home life needs to change. Parenting is difficult but if you are serious about the child coming home than there needs to be a conversation between all of you and a positive effort to...

Get in touch with a lawyer. That would be your first step. Than the process will begin. Write down exactly what you are looking for this will make it eaiser to discuss with the lawyer.

I believe that the best thing would be to speak with a lawyer. If things are not resolved by the time you move I would have to suggest still taking the time to visit with your child as despite 14 hours that should as I am sure you know be a priority, and it seems she is. Perhaps if you and the...

I am not a lawyer but I thought I would still try and give you some simple advice based on my own opinion. If the courts have labeled your home unfit so to speak and you want to be with your son. Move. If that is unaffordable at this point and time and you insist on appealing than good luck...